ok, a week ago, in health class, the 9th grade watched the sex and intercourse video, and ever since then, my guy friends look at me differently, talk to me different, and smile at me different. One guyfriend of mine was winking at me and kept looking down, another looks at my bust alot, my friend (who is also an ex) talked to me about sex the other day, and another is interested in me? Before I would never had thought they would do this. Why are they like that!? Yes I realize we all fantasize about sex, but i am not interested yet. I would like a relationship, but not that type. I have a question for all guys and one for all girls.
i like all of them and i have thought about sex and decided no, but i still have an urge to know what is going on in their minds.
Guys: What goes on in your mind when you think about doing it with a girl, What goes through you mind when you think about this? What happens when you think this?
Girls: What the heck are they doing?
2007-03-10 10:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're just lusting....
2007-03-10 11:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to Life.
I see according to your symptoms, youre either really attractive or something weird is growing on your neck.
But in all seriousness, you gotta understand that ESPECIALLY in 9th Grade which is the age level of about 15 or 14, a lot of guys voices are cracking, pimples are sprouting and some of them are discovering that they can create "tents" just looking at other women. The begining stages can make us in to animals.
Its up to you how you want to do it. If youre wise I recommend focusing on your studies before indulging in something like that because it could potentially hurt the dreams you have ahead. Just cuz your young, doesnt mean you can't have kids. EVEN with protection, something can slip. Be careful, a lot of guys are gonna try to use you just so they can get you in bed and leave you the next day. You have to decide whether your gonna be the school **** or a respected scholar.
Best of Luck to you. Its not easy being a woman.
Be Wise.
2007-03-10 11:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...guys... what can we do with them... I am in the same grade as you and guys in my class are like that too. In this point, guys go through a "phase" where all they can do is think about sexually related things, and where they somehow make everything you say or do sexual. So it's just a part of life that girls unfortunately have to put up with. But it's all natural. If they ever bother you, just tell them to back up and they should snap out of the daydreamy phase. lol Good Luck!
2007-03-10 11:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well get use to it,because your not going to change it.boys will be boys and girls will be girls.when boys look at girls,they think with their penis and some girls(and iam not saying you 1 of them)think with their vagina.
2007-03-10 11:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys dont see with their eyes they scientifically see with their *****... honestly.
2007-03-10 11:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's teenage hormones. they'll get over themselves. i wouldn't worry too much about it.
2007-03-10 11:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by DivaHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl they r horney as hell
2007-03-10 11:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋