Why does the bible say I must obey my parents? What makes them so special! Just because my mom gave birth to me mean I have to repect,obey,and kneel down to her? I ask this question because this is my NORMAL day.
Me: Mom do I have to turn down my music?
Mom: Yes! And don't ask me that supid question! I'm the adult not you! Don't you dis-respect me! I *$@#&%^ hate you $#@* kids! Get out my $#@* face!
And when I ask her why I must obey her she thinks I'm dis-respecting her. I think my mom gets angry over the supidest things! My friends are afraid to call me unless me or my dad picks up. They think she'll curse them out. When I asked her If I could go to the 6th grade graduation dance a few years ago she got mad and and I got grounded for asking if I could go to the dance with my BIG crush [who asked me if i wanted with him]. I also feel abused when she punches me and throws me against the wall. The main question is why must I respect my mom, but also what can I do to get away!
2007-03-10 10:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Hunnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The bible says honor thy mother and thy father or your days on this earth shall be shortened.
Have you ever considered that your mother may be going through something psychological that you don't know about? Have you spoke with your dad about this behavior,if not try to talk to him and let him know how it's making you feel and if that is not an option try another close family member. There is someone out there who will listen to you and try to help. If all else fails pray He's always there and if you ask he will give you your answer.
2007-03-10 11:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, number one, yes, you do need to respect your mom. The reason that you do need to respect her is because it is her responsibility to clothe, feed and put a roof over your head. If she's doing that then thats half of the battle.
Now number two is first off i would need to ask if you ever curse your mom. If the answer is yes, then thats what your gonna receive after you ask questions. If you never curse at your mom, then your mom needs to realize that this is one of the most important times in your life and you just need advice sometimes. Try not to be confrontational. The tone that you set sometimes will do more to calm a situation than the actual question. I raised 3 girls and its not easy so she may be under a lotta stress, just be aware of that.
Remember love will begat love- meaning the more love you give the more you will receive, even to your mom. Hopes this helps
2007-03-10 11:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by d g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will say that what you are going through is very unfortunate. You should report the abuse to someone. you shouldn't have to deal with that. And even if you are worried where you will go and if you can take all your stuff with you, what's most important right now is that you get yourself out of that situation for your safety! And being removed from the home, doesn mean you are going to go to a foster home, if you have relatives that can take care of you, most of the time you can be placed in there custody. Just stay strong, you will get through this.
2007-03-10 11:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by cool girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever she does or does'nt u MUST respect and obey ur parents!! be thankful to her that she brought u into this world and showed u to many loving people who care for you. You must just sit and talk to her about the way she behaves i'm sure she would understand and she cud'nt be that bad. Always remember one thing mom is one step above to god.
2007-03-10 11:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥LostDreamer☺♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your Dad about how you are feeling. Perhaps things can be worked out within the family without getting others involved. If not, then you can confide in a teacher or guidance counselor who will be able to help.
2007-03-10 12:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by JLB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If youre being physically abused all you have to do is tell child services and they will remove you from your home.
Just make sure you are ok with that because you never know where you will end up and you wont get to take all your stuff with you.
2007-03-10 10:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police or better yet u should go 2 the police station what she is doin is abuse n she can g2 jail 4dat
2007-03-10 10:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm why MUST u respect your parent well as u said they gave birth to u and also they are your blood!!!! and also becuz they say so!!! i hate it to but thats life!!and yes i think that in the bible it says oh yes it does HOUNOR THY MOTHER THY FATHER.
2007-03-10 11:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they brought you into this world, they could get you out just as easily.
2007-03-10 11:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋