ok, a week ago, in health class, the 9th grade watched the sex and intercourse video, and ever since then, my guy friends look at me differently, talk to me different, and smile at me different. One guyfriend of mine was winking at me and kept looking down, another looks at my bust alot, my friend (who is also an ex) talked to me about sex the other day, and another is interested in me? Before I would never had thought they would do this. Why are they like that!? Yes I realize we all fantasize about sex, but i am not interested yet. I would like a relationship, but not that type. I have a question for all guys and one for all girls.
i like all of them and i have thought about sex and decided no, but i still have an urge to know what is going on in their minds.
Guys: What goes on in your mind when you think about doing it with a girl, What goes through you mind when you think about this? What happens when you think this?
Girls: What the heck are they doing?
2007-03-10 10:47:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They must have really great videos in health now days. When I went to school the films were black-and-white and are totally confusing and probably explains that increase in people switching genders.
You really haven't said what the video implied that would cause all the guys to act this way.
But let's answer your real questions.
What goes on in your mind when you think about doing it with the girl? Well I think of... doing it with a girl. Of course if I've never been with this girl then my concentration is how am I going to come up with some idea to get with this girl.
You just need to be upfront with them and tell them regardless of what they saw in the film... you're not interested. Don't send them any nice signals just be upfront and say friends are fine..... but you're not considering anything else. And if they try then you won't be their friends. They will back off once they know you mean business.... or maybe no business.... depending on how you look at
Mark
author GirlsTellAll
2007-03-11 19:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a much stonger urge for sex then the average female. I respect that you have chosen no. The presures of teenage sex are pretty high these days. If you think they look at you differently now, you try having sex with them and see how different things get.
Just ignor them or tell them to cut it out, if they dont respect your wishes, they are not worth your time as friends.
2007-03-10 10:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losing respect for the girl, the girl is easy and things like that. just keep saying no because once you have sex it could end up in pregnancy and you don't want that. you will find that most men and boys respect a girl more if she sticks with what she believes
2007-03-10 11:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i have a thought about having sex its in my sleep and if i want sex with a girl i act the same
2007-03-10 10:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by MACMAN9494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just act like a big jerk...I'm thinking that their acting that way only because they have learned something from that class.....but if u aren't ready don't rush into it.....and ask your bf why is he acting like this and also ask your ex because they have no business acting this way toward you
2007-03-10 10:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by **BeautiFul** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are always horny at high school age
2007-03-10 10:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋