I work with this great girl who is sweet and caring. We flirt so much at work and I have the feeling, feelings are mutual. She still lives with her ex and talks about him from time to time but it is def over. She is going to be moving out and getting her own bank account again. I don't want to wait to long and have her find someone else but I don't want to get the "I just got out of a bad relationship, I want to be single" line either. I have gotten that a couple times and it sucks. Should I persue? We go to lunch regularly together and have hung out a few times but with other coworkers around. We live an hour apart so it is hard to find a common place to meet in off time, plus I havn't really tried to ask her yet. Normally I don't get worked up like this over a girl, Im 25 and had my ups and downs with girls, but she just feels like the one for some reason, never had that feeling hit me so hard before.
2007-03-10 10:45:09 · 5 answers · asked by kconleyk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. judging by your past experiences you could be in the dreaded friend zone and persuing this relationship while she's still living with her ex may only make things awkward at work for the both of you. exes a lot of times still have power over each other. wait till she actually has her own place, then invite her over to your place to watch movies at your place sometime. if she's down with it, you're in like flint. good luck.
2007-03-10 10:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by just curious (A.A.A.A.) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All girls are in a bad relationship when it come to getting extra attention from some other guy. IF by chance she really is wait til she is out of the relationship completely before you ask her out.. Come on use your head, you've been around enough to see the game.
2007-03-10 18:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to lunch or dinner at a neutral place. Do so a couple of tim,es then try a little more romantic place!
2007-03-10 18:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait till she moves out.
2007-03-10 18:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. if she doesn't love her ex anymore, it's ok to try asking her out.
2007-03-10 18:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by angelbaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋