i still like my ex?

Question

im going out with someone right now but i still cant forget about my ex.im not sure who i like more.what should i do!!help!!

Answer 1

Sometimes you can't help your feelings that you have for someone. But a lot of factors play into that, like good memories, a certain song playing, etc.

Recognize feelings for what they are though, and realize that that alone is NOT a good enough reason to go back to someone. Remember, they are your ex for a reason!

The best course of action would be to talk to your current because there is something wrong if you are having thoughts of breaking up with them. Let them know your concerns and give them a chance to get it together.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well..i was in ur position so ill let u kno how i handled my situation...Your never gonna forget your ex, especially if hes your first love. My ex did me so bogus you wouldnt even imagine the things he did or said...Well now i got a better and way nicer boyfriend and he treats me right...me and my ex arent together for a reason, and if love couldnt keep us together, than nothing could...I kno i wanna be with my boyfriend, but from time to time i still think about my ex, but you see everything happens for a reason, and im glad im not with my ex, because then i would've never met the guy im with now!! and to top it off, the guy that im with now its my ex's best friend!!! so picture that..i mean theres always ppl out there that have it worse than you do, u just gotta realize that your not with ur ex for a good reason, and keep that in mind, and enjoy the relationship your in now..and everything will turn out way better than you expected! ;) good luck!

Answer 4

Forget your ex. There's a reason he's an ex. Easy to forget that. The more time passes, the less important that reason seems but it will all come back to you if you are with him again.

Answer 5

I've been there than that.what's in the past should stay in the past.there's a reason why his your ex right?he needs to stay in ex land.i was you for one time.we even got back together but things never change.it will take time to get over someone.what you need is to stay single for a bit and ask yourself do you really want to be with your new bf.it's not fair to him that he has to share you with your ex.just think how would you feel if the shoes in the other foot.so get yourself together and get some me time.or maybe you jump into dating to soon.good luck!!!

Answer 6

If your X is your X then Y are you thinking of X when Y is the question? Maybe Mr. X is not really Mr. X but Mr. not X but Mr. Y for Mr. Yes. One should never think of an X in more than the X fashion otherwise Mr. X is no longer Mr. X but Mr. Y. If you do not know what to do Mr. X doesn't exist for you.

Answer 7

If you broke up with him there was a reason. Maybe he's changed, but chances are he hasn't. It would be a gamble to see if he has. Give it time and he'll fade.

If he broke up with you, let him go, somebody who doesn't see you as a benefactor to their life is not going to be happy in a relationship with you. And that will eventually effect you too.

Answer 8

How long have you and your ex been apart? Maybe this guy is just a rebound if so-get out now until you figure out what you want. It isn't fair to lead people on.

Answer 9

If you still care for him that means its love. But before you jump into something you might regret just give the guy your with a chance

Answer 10

ooo that is a toughie. well when that happened to me i eventually ended drifting bac to my ex as bad as it sounds. Now we're together again. I couldn't let myself stay with the other guy because i felt lie i was lying to him everytime i said i liked him. Just ask yourself honestly who could make you happier...