I like hanging out with my two friends that are girls we have hung out a lot these past two weeks, I'm really nice to them when we hang out, I'm not very talkative which I'm working on, but why don't they ever want to hang out after school or on the weekends???? we always hang out during the day but never at night or on weekends? How can I get them to like me enough to hang out more? I always ask them if they want to hang out and most of the time they do want to hang out, but why don't they call me to ask? Like I said I really like hanging out with them but I just don't know if I should stop asking them because I don't want to seem like a loner which I'm not.
thanks
2007-03-10 10:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they may think that that is a date and they don't like you that much and you should just go with a bunch of friends instead of just you and them.
2007-03-10 10:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by nathan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be anything personal, it could be about what their parents allow them to do in the evenings and on the weekends.
It may also be the fact that they dont want to mislead you into thinking that your relationship is more than friendship with them or possibly if they have boyfriends that they spend time with as well.
Try to give it a chance, if you know of a certain thing going on that you want to go to like a movie, bring it up and ask them if they all wanna go to it and hang out!
See what they say. If not try not to take it to personal and you can always give them your number and let them know that you have fun hanging out with them and maybe you guys could hang out after school or weekend sometime.
If they chose not to then give it a rest, they will let you know and maybe you could hang out with another friend that is available to do things in the evenings and weekends! good luck!
2007-03-10 18:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask them if they want to do something on the weekend and after school then make plans. maybe they are just waiting for you to call them. The worst they could say is no. so go for it ask away.
2007-03-10 18:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should stop asking n hang out with other ppl they will come around 2 hanging with u
2007-03-10 18:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little more assertive. girls like confident guys. Just ask them what they are doing after school and see if you could tag along.
2007-03-10 18:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you call them? Follow up your original question. Maybe they think your blagging.
2007-03-10 18:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take initiative and say "Were going to the movies on saturday night okay?"
2007-03-10 18:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by gaara_o_sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋