what if someone goes out with a guy "just for fun" (not talking sex.. just flirting, holding hand, kissing)... but she is not Looking for a Relationship right now.. just doing what is making her happy and having fun. she does Like the guy.. and he likes her.. but he told her that he doesn't like the whole boyfriend girlfriend terms thing.. so is does it make this girl a 'bad girl' to just go out with him if he makes her happy.. but it's probably just hormones and stuff.. the girl has never been like this before.
2007-03-10 10:30:43 · 7 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey 'Deathbunny' how would that make me be going to Hell.. i'm not having sex with him or anything of the sort. we both don't want a bf gf relationship at the moment, but both make eachother happy being with each other. that's the most ridiculous thing i've ever heard.. and That is Not what my strong Christian beliefs have brought me up on.. so I don't know where you are getting this information.. because you yourself are obviously not one to talk about religiously speaking. God forgives and something like This would never mean I am going to Hell. So go read the Bible before you tell someone else they are going to Hell because you obviously Need to!
2007-03-10 19:10:47 · update #1
Your description is a little vague, but surely it doesn't make you a bad girl (or her if it is really someone else) for playing like this when you are honest. You say you both aren't interested in a relationship, are not wanting sex...but are flirting, holding hands, kissing...getting involved with each other emotionally. Sounds like a good recipe for hurt feelings coming soon.
So with her being honest I don't think you could at all say she was being "bad" but if they both can continue to flirt and kiss without expecting it to end or go somewhere romantically...one of them will do so anyway eventually. "Playing" at being a couple will lead to one of them wanting it for real, but if this is truly a friend of yours all you can do is be her friend and wait for it to play out.
2007-03-10 11:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by mark63049 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you have a really good understanding of what you expect at the stage in your relationship.
There are no bad girls, there are girls who's choices are off greatly. But this does not seem to be one of those times.
Just remember the layout of your relationship and do not let your self take it to the next step with out the already existing ability to discuss this in detail.
If there comes a time you can not deal with the rules you and he have set up, honesty is the best policy. It may of course end your dating relationship. Be careful and good luck.
2007-03-10 18:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends...
If you take the stereotypical expectations of girls' behavior, to include most Judeo-Christian philosophies, then you are bad and you're going to Hell.
If you instead look at it from a more realistic and egalitarian perspective, then you're behaving normally and in a healthy manner.
Your call as to what standards you use.
2007-03-10 18:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do what you thinkis right, don't let someone talk you into anything you don't feel is right.
2007-03-10 18:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, thats just 'i NEED you' cause im young.
2007-03-10 18:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for what makes you happy...there will be lots of boyfriends...have fun........................lots of luck
2007-03-10 18:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not bad
2007-03-10 18:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by upgrade u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋