She is everything i'd want but we live across the country from each other. She is moving to a neighboring state, in a yr or two. We both are going to have the same careers should i make a move now or later?
2007-03-10 10:29:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not sure. i might wait, but if you think she likes you, then you might as well do it now. well i'm in computers, so i gotta go, or else i could get in trouble for not doing my work.
2007-03-12 06:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for it. If you do it now, it will be awkward, hard to maintain and may even get her to avoid you when she gets here. If she is close at least you stand the chance of letting it happen. Be patient. She'll probably have to cut ties with any romantic interest she has long distance when she comes there anyways, so you'll be a friendly face in a crowd she doesn't know. Realize thought that you stand a chance of losing a great friend if you do act, but anything good comes with risk. Trust your own intuition.
2007-03-10 18:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
latter so it doesnt seem to sudden and the long distance relationship is to hard and might not give it another try when she moves near u plus it might be weird to talk to each other. unless she likes u a lot and u now it then u dont want to keep her waiting to long she will get taken
2007-03-10 18:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by sarah j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think she could be the one for you, then you should tell her. You two should start talking about a relationship in the future. Long-distance relationships are really difficult, but if it's the right person, it is totally worth it. But if she's not the right person, then think it over before you talk to her about it.
2007-03-10 18:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAKE A MOVE. you never know how you will feel later or what Could happen. you don't want to live with regrets!!! if it's meant to be it will be meant to be. and you like her now.. so act on it Now! good luck and best wishes to ya! :)
2007-03-10 18:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO do not move. Best friends lasts longer than most relationships. Don't wreck it. Besides does she feel the same about you? If not you will distroy a good friendship
2007-03-10 18:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by GutsiePerson 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
make the move..asap. You never know whats going to happen ..maybe she has the same feelings for you too..don't wait unit someone eles comes into the picture.
2007-03-10 18:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by amar717 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a hard one because you risk the friendship by telling her but if you really love her then it's a risk worth taking. Good luck sweetie.
2007-03-10 18:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it now before its too late otherwise u will be kicking youself for the rest of your life. but find out is she feels the same way then act on it. otherwise u could lose the friendship.
2007-03-10 18:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by oooops! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
later if your going to, if you make a move on her and she turns you down you might not keep in touch very much after she moves
2007-03-10 18:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by dondibakeman20011 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now because if u wait and she is a great girl than she will most likely be taken.
2007-03-10 18:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by CaRoLiNe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋