My sister always hangs with this girl, and when she comes home she's bitchy, mean, and thinks she can get whatever she wants. My parents "ban" her from the girl, but it never works. I'm 2 years older than her and I was never like that. How can I make her grow up a little quicker and make her understand that she is a totally different person around other people?
2007-03-10 10:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do things with her. If you are her friend and you hang out with her then she may not need that other girl for a friend.
2007-03-10 11:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this newfound freind is having a bad influence on her. There is a few things you can do, though, do make her realize how she's acting.
When she thinks she can get whatever she wants, simply say a firm 'no' to everything. If you keep giving in, she will just think that she's the boss, and she has control over you.
Try keeping her away from the girl for a week or two, an make those days the happiest in her life. Treat her to a trip to the mall, or give her a gift, "Just Because". When she goes back to the girl, she'll find that life isn't as happy. And when she get's home, make it hell. Repeat the cycle again, and she will soon find out that life without the girl is so much more fun than with her.
2007-03-10 18:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is talk to her. even though it may seem its going in one ear and out the other. and set a good example. this girl will screw her over and she will learn the hard way. let her live and learn, if she is not wanting to listen to you or your parents.
2007-03-10 19:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a mentor for her. I feel that probable you're a damn big sister . Where are your parents. Why aren't they parenting?
2007-03-10 18:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make her grow up faster,and she is a little imature also, not all two people are alike andso i found out with my three children. i guess she will have to out grow these actions of hers. good luck!
2007-03-10 18:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her learn the hard way. she wants to be grown let her see what it feels like to try to be something you're not! she'll come flying back down and fall into the attitude dat suits her.
2007-03-10 18:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by chocolateflavadgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you would show more interest, ask her to do things with you, you would be able to influence her away from that other person.
2007-03-10 18:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and make sure you provide examples of situations that show how she is different when she is around her "friend"...dont argue...just talk...the more u argue the more she will feel drawn to the friend.
2007-03-10 18:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bloo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her she needs to think about other people but that one girl, she needs to stop the obsession, but she'll deny it... tell her to look at herself and see what she's become, she needs t5o be more nice and get new friends TRUST CHICKADEE. need help, im me: melrocks144
2007-03-10 18:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act the same way she is acting to her and then tell her about her attitudes and she will probably stop!
2007-03-10 18:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by evee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋