Why should I not commit suicide?

Question

I lie, never seem to do things right, hurt people I love... I'm the worst person in the world. Will the world be better without me?

Answer 1

With that attitude, you THINK you're the worst person in the world. You're not. Your judgement is merely biased because you feel like crap from the way your life has been going. If you want to be happy, take action and make yourself happy. You know you lie, so stop lying; you know you hurt people, so learn from waht you did and don't repeat it. Being pissed ain't no reason to give up and end your life.

Answer 2

no the world will not be better without you and all suicide is, is a permanant solution for a temperary problem, it is not going to make things any better, you dont want to hurt your loved ones anymore then stop hurting them do whats right all killing yourself will do is hurt them more and make them feel like they guided you wrong just try to be good no mater what type of situation you are in i am sure you can make things better, even if your surounded by bad things or influences cause you dont have to do what others do, try spending time with your loved ones find someone you can really talk to and open up and say how you feel maybe cry a little and let it all out so you can feel better and then start working on how you can become a better person what you can do for someone not what someone can do to you deep down u gota be a good person and suicide should never cross your mind just think about all this and if you needa talk i am here well good luck hope i helped

Answer 3

Listen to me please?? Me doesn't care how much you lie, hurt people you love or anything else. Do you think yer the only person who has ever done this?? As for being the worst person in the world . NO NO NO. You sound like you have some self-esteem issues so get yerself to a therapist of some kind. You sound like a teenage in need of help.

Talk to yer parents. If that isnt possible you must have an adult in yer life somewhere who you can talk to. If yer living in Canada you can go to a hosiptal and ask for Mental Health Triage. The will talk to you and help find you the help you sound like you desperately need.

Another thing. About suicide?? All yer gonna do if you do that is leave everyone who cares and loves you feeling quilty about it. And it is hard to recover from a loved one committing suicide. So that is not yer answer. Get the therapy yer calling out for and hopefully that wil help.

You say you lie?? You wouldn't lie about this though right?? Yer seriously lookin for help, you just doesn't know how to get it?? If ya won't go to a mental health triage, then get that butt of yers on the phone to a suicide help line like NOW!!!!!!!! Get yer butt off the computer and talk to someone who is trained in this kinda stuff pleae??? There's enough hurtful things goin on in people's life's me would hate to see a suicide added to it. Please get some help. Sart with the suicide help lines. It should have a phone number in the telephone book.

Answer 4

I never noticed that the great big universe gives a damn about judging you. Who invited you to be so judgmental about yourself? What makes you think you are so important? The world will still rotate every 24 hours with or without you. Deal with it.

The best reason I know for refraining from suicide is to find out how beautiful life is. So how do you discover that? You get out of yourself and take a look. Get away from family and friends and church and live in another city for a while. Start thinking more about other people and less about yourself. Devote some time to visiting old people in some hospital or children in an orphanage or something. Nothing I know does more to create happiness in yourself than seeking to give happiness to others.

Answer 5

First and foremost allow me to tell you that you are not alone! There are so many people who felt your feeling, myself being one of them! If I had to give you one reason not to commit suicide it would be because GOD never makes mistakes. He didn't create you for death, but rather for life. When he feels that the world doesn't need you anymore then he will take you to heaven, but he doesn't need your help deciding.
Everyone lies. Your mother lies, you father lies, I LIE! I lie everyday. Lying is one of the easiest yet hardest things to do. sometimes the lie seems to be the sofest way to avoid the truth. But I am trying my best not to lie. Everyday I want to lie less.
It won't happen over night, but if I allow myself to live then maybe in time I won't lie. Who have you hurt? I truly hope you aren't hurt over a relationship of some sort. The reason why you should continue on with life is because God gave us the gift of forgiveness. Ask all of the people you hurt for forgiveness. If they choose not to do so then carry on sister/brother! You aren't the worst person in the world. Today a couple was arrested for murdering their two children and burying them under their house. Now that's bad? And since you are on the internet then you aren't them. The won't be better with out you. It will be worst. Many people will mourn over your death and you will cheat the world out of a person who could have been anything! Even if all you did for the rest of life was work at McDonalds, still if you die then you would have cheated them out of a cook or cashier. The point is YOU HAVE A PURPOSE! GOD WON'T LET YOU GO UNTIL THAT PURPOSE IS SERVED. I HOPE YOU READ THIS AND TAKE IT TO HEART. PLEASE EMAIL ME IF YOU NEED TO. [e-mail] (ALL LOWECASE) GOD BLESS YOU!

Answer 6

No, you shouldn't! We all do all those things you mentioned sometimes, unfortunately. But you know something? Most people are forgiving when we make mistakes, and the fact that you have owned up to these things is the 1st step toward correcting the fault you find in yourself. I think most of us are hardest on ourselves - much harder than others are on us. Today might be a bad day for you(maybe you've had a bunch of bad days recently), but tomorrow you have a chance to wake up, start over, and be that better person you think you need to be! Trust me, you're not the worst person in the world, you're just human like the rest of us.

Answer 7

Wow, you really shouldn't feel that way. I'm sorry you do.
Listen, you're not the worst person in the world, okay? You can change the things you don't like about yourself with enough effort and self-confidence. Try not to do the things that hurt the people you love. Stop lying, it won't get you anywhere good, if it does, you probably won't have a clean conscience.
So, lighten up, thing's can change....

Answer 8

No, The Lord put you in the world for a reason. You should try and become the person you want to be. Suicide is never the answer.

Answer 9

you are NOT the worst person in the world. calm down and try to be rational. almost EVERYONE goes through times like this.. some more than most and the time length varies for the different people and situations. but S*** happens in this life. and you just need to deal with it. leaving this world will do nothing for you and will not solve your problem. it is a permanent thing.. and THIS TIME WILL PASS!! you need to remember that. you need to focus on your wonderful qualities.. what makes you unique from everyone else.. the WORLD NEEDS YOU! and you need to remember that there ARE people who actually even have it WORSE than you. at least you are still given the chance to live. don't take that for granted. because i know there are millions of people who have died not by choice and would be so THANKFUL to be able to have just the CHANCE to live. live your life to its fullest and don't be so negative.. because it does you no good to think that way.. it just keeps you set in that same track of line! you need to not always just rely on others to help you and tell you what to do and rather focus more on YOURSELF. be friends with yourself and help yourself through this. yeah friends and other people can be a helping crutch.. but you need to learn to love yourself first. i do not know you but i know you are special in your own way.. and PLEASE do not resort to the ultimate decision.. you will miss out on so much and it is obvious just NOT YOUR TIME to go. everything happens for a reason.. and remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. i hope your life looks up soon, but if not sooner than later then please don't get discouraged and give up!! life is just hard!! or else what would be the point..?

Answer 10

I know that you are hurting right now, but the pain will pass. You have to start a journey of discovering who you are and who you want to be. Start small, write down three things everyday that are positive. (i.e. "I woke up this morning", "I'm not blind", " I have a roof over my head", etc. Eventually you will see things to be thankful for everywhere. I was so sad at one time that I couldn't bare another day. Now, I can see things in my everyday life to be thankful for. I was sitting in a drive thru one day and saw that the landscaping was really nice, that was something in that moment that I was thankful for. Work on you and what you want to change first. If you need to talk to someone there are really great therapists out there who can help.