see i like this guy but he doesnt no me he just sees me in school but i get 2 nerves to talk to him wat should i do?
2007-03-10 09:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by coolkid514 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's some tips.
1. Do something different to yourself. Not too drastic like dyeing your hair green! Perhaps getting a new hairstyle like blonde highlights or a sweeping fringe, or a fake tan?
2. Get in with his group of friends, even if you have to go through the girls he knows first.
3. At a party, make sure you do something to make him notice you, that's not getting drunk and stripping on top of the dining table, something subtle like giving him a bright smile from the other side of the room, or if you're feeling brave a quick wink, and then don't talk to him for the rest of the night.
4. Flirt with his friends. Guys always want something they can't have.
5. Wear clothes that show off your best features, but make sure it's not slutty or too revealing.
6. Get known. Go around town where he would be hanging out, make sure at every opportunity that he sees you looking your best - but don't make him think you're stalking him!
7. If you're nervous about talking to him, if you talk to him with a group of his friends and your friends together you'll feel more confident. Make eye contact, listen to what he says and be interested, try to find common ground. If you're not an amazing conversationist, don't worry. Comment on the music that's playing, what holidays you're going on this year...anything! But don't give into gossip, or talk about boring things like school or exams.
8. If you get his number, don't text him first. And don't always text him back immediately, make him wait! Keep him on his toes.
9. When you see him, give a quick flirty wink, to make sure that he knows you're still interested. Winking is rather intimate because it's like you two both have a special "moment" together even when there are people around. Flirt with his friends too though, don't divert too much attention on him, and don't try to be over the top about it - you don't want him thinking you're like a major flirt!
10. Have hobbies. Get involved with school clubs and things. If he sees that you have a life, he'll see that you're interesting and popular, and will want to get to know you more.
11. Last of all, and I know everyone says this, but be yourself. It's really important, because if you do end up going out with him you can't keep up the facade that you love football and punk music forever, in the end the truth is going to come out and he'll be annoyed that you lied, and then you'll have missed your chance! Also, guys will get annoyed with girls that like everything they like - they like girls who have opinions!
I hope that these helped a bit! Good luck with your guy!
2007-03-10 10:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by peaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yerself. If he's a smart boy he'll notice ya.
Nervous is actually a good thing when around a new guy ya really like. Try taking a deep breathe and forcing yerself to relax. It may help.
Good luck with the boy :) ;)
2007-03-10 09:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by newfieswoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is that if you have a class with him ask him for paper or something. Then as days go on ask him for answers for classwork and tell him how the classroom is boring. He will eventually notice you,and talk to you more.
2007-03-10 09:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by powerdestini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and get some confidence to at least talk to him.
2007-03-10 09:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear something really hot talk to all his friends and ignore him.
2007-03-10 09:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by The Vet Tech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋