We are both seniors and I like her alot. I have known her for 2 years and recently found a deep affection toward her. I talk to her every morning, and after school. I always have a good time with her, and the same with her. I am very shy when I comes to talking to her though.
She is smart, cute and very pretty, and I want to take our relationship to the next level, but I am not sure what to do, and she doesnt seem to notice that I like her.
What can I do to show her that I like her without telling her I like her? Can anyone help me?
2007-03-10 09:37:39 · 13 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is always the best policy. If this girl is really your friend you asking her out is not going to effect your friendship. If she's not into you then at least you'll know and you can stop torturing yourself. If you drag it out you could get stuck in the friend zone while she dates other guys. She could be waiting for you to make the move and you could blow it if you don't make it soon. The worst possible outcome is that she says NO and you guys will still be friends. That sounds like a win win situation to me!
2007-03-10 09:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys are old enough to ask for yourself, I just think you should get guts and go ask her. But I know how you feel being shy and all of that, so I suggest buying her something. A balloon that says I love you, flowers and chocolates probably the best choice. You can also even ask a friend to tell your crush you like her.
Also you can just give her a note asking her if you want togo out, and you really like her.
2007-03-10 17:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show her that you like her with a couple of ways:
-Find excuses and circumstances where it can be just the two of you, alone, either out or sitting next to her etc
-Compliments. Tell her how pretty she is today, how beautiful her hair is, how clever or nice or funny was sth she said etc.
-Seek for physical contact, touch her with every opportunity.
-You can tell her that she is important for you and she means a lot but leave it without clarifying that you don't mean it in a friendly way.
-Do nice things for her, give her your help whenever possible.
If you see that she is responding to your behavior, you can try to kiss her, in a romantic environment of course...
And then you'll know!
Good luck!
2007-03-10 17:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good question...
best advice would be to make a move before someone around does one and get her...
best thing also would be to show more love than friendship to her because you dont want to hear that she prefers you as a friend than a lover dude... that would be heartbroken for sure...
so dont be shy to show her feelings and not tell her your feelings because it could be very cheesy if you are shy... so show love and affection... how ? by touching her a little bit like on the shoulders and stuff like that... anyway... good luck buddy!
2007-03-10 17:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Luc G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating the boy I really liked the way he found out without me telling him I sent him notes in school and he asked me out and I said yes. You can either ask her out or give her notes in school. But when you do do something simple like Hello hi or even hey then after that write more notes then ask if you can talk to her after school.
2007-03-10 17:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are adorable. The best way(I think) is to simply approach her when she is alone and ask her out on a 1 date. If she says yes, pick out a movie ...nothing to romantic...perhaps semi-romanitic movie. When you do go out on a date...be a total gentlemen...she will pick up on the clues...during the movie keep your damn hands to yourself....after the movie before you part from her....tell her that you would like to see her again
2007-03-10 17:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To show you have affection for somebody, you don't have to yell it out, with time and continuous friendship the loose strings will tie themselves together. As long as you be yourself and keep your cool things will work out. I'm sure she's had the same feelings for you too, so ask her out somewhere, (as friends) and have a good time.
2007-03-10 17:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to double date with some of your friends, that way its not totally awkward cuz thers other people, but she will probably get the idea
2007-03-10 17:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if a girl likes you,,,most of them won't let you know it until they know that you like them,,,ask her out!!!
2007-03-10 18:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just to telll her, don't beat around the bush
2007-03-10 17:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by hawty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋