2007-03-10 09:31:26 · 14 answers · asked by MS.NEISHA-BOO SUCH A KUTIE!!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it ain't bad. find something to do for yourself or with the girls; something you like to do other than him. take a short break from him, stop obsessing; show him some faith, & trust.
2007-03-10 10:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by puddintain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think its a good thing because he is not being clingy, possessive, or insecure....all risks one can run...
that he maybe is independent and has a life and separate interests can be a good thing
now if yr real question is, if its bad that he doesnt call everyay and u seriously suspect him of having another girlfriend...well i wld say that isnt bad either...cause at least hes giving u enough clarity into who is he to let him go without thinking u missed out on something..
further, if he's not calling u everyday..i hope that u arent sitting home WORRIED about him not caling u everyday! :) do something with this unexpected free-time....u might find some clarity within yrself and happiness in not being connected at the hip
2007-03-10 17:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by kinduvabrat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually it can be a good thing. To grow as a couple you need to spend time apart.
If him not calling everyday bothers you then you have trust issues.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and we had times where we got to be spending too much time together and it nearly ruined our relationship.
Take the advice of someone who's been there and done that. and don't become too clingy or posessive of him. Eventually it will become a problem. Give him space and watch your love grow.
:)
2007-03-10 17:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say that i would want him to call me everyday...doesnt mean that everytime he calls we're gonna spend hours on the phone..i just want him to say things like hey...thinkin of you...or some other sweet gesture to show that he really is thinking of me...men, generally speaking dont like to use the phone that much so if you find that he doesnt call u as often as u would like...dont feel bad...but sometimes guys think that a girl would mind if he does call everyday so u can talk about it together and work out wat both of you want in this regard
2007-03-10 17:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! In fact, if he did, then it could get a little boring. As long you're happy with the amount of times that he calls, then it's fine. If you'd like him to call you more often, tell him so! It might be that he doesn't have a lot of credit, so offer to ring each other alternately or something. Either that or talk online or text.
2007-03-10 17:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by peaches 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is bad. Your boyfriend might be doing important things during some days. But when he calls you that means he actually took his time to hear every word you say.
2007-03-10 17:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by powerdestini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your problems, thats a key to any relationship, it's even worse when the problem is lack of comunication. Ask him wats happening and don't take the "just busy" bull s**t. Find out what's happening.
2007-03-10 17:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by king cody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't always bad,but if it is frequently you should ask yourself why is it happening?Maybe he used to do that with another girls,and he thinks that he can do it with you too,and maybe he just was busy that day.Don't worry,but if he starts to ignore you,show him your rules girl,and ignore him too.
2007-03-10 17:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Martina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, If he truly love you and care about you;he would want to call you everyday to see if you are O.K. You should be the first thing that come to his mind.
2007-03-10 17:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by DARk&lovely 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Thats a good thing. You need time for yourself.
2007-03-10 17:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋