how can you not hate this person who has constantly hurt you? how do one get pass the lies and deceit. how can one move on with there life and still hold peace after someone has done you wrong for yrs?
2007-03-10 09:29:36 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know about hate,and I don't think deep down neither do you,you've been hurt,OBVIOUSLY there is something wrong with this person,there are people that can't help themselves,it's a desease(true)that said ,theres know way in hell you could ever trust this person,or what they tell you.Instead of hate,pity the person,I'm sure everyone who knows them feels the same as you.
2007-03-10 09:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do for this situation is to learn from it and realize the harm and damage that comes from lying and deceiving people. It is a sickness and they either need training or counseling. Whatever you do don't get caught up in the sickness. Your attitudes will not change about a person that has done you wrong with this style until you are convinced that they have recovered. Have you tried to help this person with letting them know that you know they have a handicap and you would like to see them better? It is easy to sit and throw stones at people that have difficulty in life and difficulties come in waves and at different periods in life. I sure hope that the ones that I threw stones at early on in life do not catch me in a wave of difficult positions or problems and return what I gave them. I do not think that will help me as I am sure it did not them.
2007-03-10 09:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you are going through this. The only thing you can do is let time heal you. Its going to be a long process. Once you have found forgiveness in your heart for the person that hurt you, you will be able to move on. Its going to be a long grieving process but everything you experience in life makes you a stronger person. Trust me I know.
2007-03-10 09:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can actually trust him again, then you have to do what christ did for us and forgive him then the most important thing is to do away with the past. I know it is a hard pill to swallow but it is the only way you will move on... We all take risks and this is just another one, the question here is are you willing to be that brave and get rid of all your pride and forget the past? Good luck.
2007-03-10 09:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 19:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those in our futures pay for the cheaters in our pasts.
We think others will do the same thing that hurt us before.
It is human nature.
Take some time before you get serious again.
Get comfortable being on your own.
You are the only one that can make you happy.
2007-03-10 09:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ T O N I ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it's possibe to forget it all and move on but I think you can heal and forgive to a certain point.
Just slowly push it out of your mind, try practising every day..like say to yourself daily you will forgive this person, you will move on.
Or it could be best just to remove yourself from this persons life.
2007-03-10 09:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not real sure i understand why it is a problem. they hurt you, they lied to you, and you want to move on. so do so. there are plenty of other people out there and you are doing nothing wront to the other person. they wronged you and they have to live with the consequences.
2007-03-10 09:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is a great healer. memories fade and so does pain. try and not dwell on the past but concentrate on the future.
2007-03-10 09:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ypu can forgive it'll make your heart feel lighter but don't ever date that person again,ever!!
2007-03-10 09:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋