I'm 16, my boyfriend just turned 19. I love him very much. I couldnt imagine my life with out him. Where can I get married?
2007-03-10 09:20:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
please don't make such a giant mistake. it isn't 1930. you don't marry your high school sweet heart, have a house with a white picket fence and everything is just great. you're both so young. young people don't stay together in this day and age
2007-03-10 09:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you feel you are in love, but you are way too young to be thinking of getting married. You are both too immature. First of all you must finish high school, and then possibly college. If you both care for one another then the right thing to do is wait. Get an education first, and so should he too. What are you going to live on, love? That is only in the movies. What would your job prospects be?
McDonalds, or slinging hash in a diner? What is he going to do, get a job as a cook or work in a factory for minimum wage? Believe me when there is no money, love goes out the window very fast. You have to be 21 to be married without permission in most states. Did you ever hear of the saying: "Marry in haste, repent in leisure". Think about it and discuss with your Mother and I am sure she will give you the same advice and not consent.
2007-03-10 11:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you imagining? That you'll come back, your parents will say thats ok, everything will be perfect? You'll spend your life together forever? I wanted to do the same thing when I was 16. So glad I didn't! I thought he was the 'one'. Lasted 6 months. Silly childhood feelings. You get married, doesnt matter about school, you can't live. You 16, only been here for 16 years. your going to be here for another 60-70 years.. whats the hurry...? He'll wait.
2007-03-10 11:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait to be 18 years old ! marrying someone doesn't mean anything even if you couldnt imagine your life without him. as long as you love him stay with him and wait to be sure than in 3-4 years you still feel you can't live without that person. you're too young and too little life experienced to be sure without any doubt that he is the person for your life. a life is very long... especially starting at 16 ..
2007-03-10 09:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Luc G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! I got married at 19 and I wish I had waited!!! I "LOVED" him and had to have him. I didn't think I could live with out him but if I had waited. I didn't get to experience much of anything. He was my first and only and so I didn't know if there was anything better out there. I didn't get to experience "SINGLE" life or anything just jumped right into the fire!
On top of all the struggles and stuff. I still have not finished college and work with my back (if you get my drift) because I didn't get my education on. Please consider waiting at least for a little while longer.
2007-03-10 09:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, no where in the US ... I wouldn't recommend going out of the country, either, as that might cause problems with your family. You should just wait and concentrate on school while you can, then marry after college. If you're still going to be together, then it shouldn't be a problem to wait until you have you life in order and a stable career.
2007-03-11 13:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere. In the USA you must have your parents permission if you are under 18 (19 in NE and 21 in MS). If you can't get your parent's permission, you can always try to get a Judge's permission.
2007-03-10 12:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in a bathroom or someplace where your parents can't find out
a jail
in yourrrr house
on a cruise ship
at a beach
football stadium
school
bathrroom
anywhere
heaven
space
space ship
a room
a hospittal
McDonald's
My house
JOhn's house
A chapel Iraq
China town
Hollywood
MExico Rocky POint
Undera rock
with Spongebob
Get body guards
At the oreo store
Candy SHop
The mall
SHoe store
In front of Best Buy
Right now Say Let's get married then woah pop fershizzle yer married
Where you plan to go for honeymoon
The moon
The Ghetto
Pizza hut
Chuckie Cheeze
Disney land
Disney World
Lego land
Mojave Desert
Burger King
India
Korea
japan Europe
Brazil
Post office
jamaica
Your mom's house least spot your parents would catch you
Jewelry store
The Race Track down the hall
At college
Or you could just wait until you're old enough cuz 16 sems a bit too early cuz I"m 15 and I'm a couple months from being your age maybe wait until you're in college
if you do get married you are gonna struggle in life for it would be crazy if you both got accepted to the same college etc.
well anyways
Radio Shack
Crabshack
Red Lobster's
HOmetown buffet tell them it's your birthday and they come out and sing for you but instead pretend it's your wedding
PRetzel SHop
Dunkin' Donuts
The movie theatre perfect
in a car
in a truck
in a red wagon
on the eifel tower
Under a tent
At yellow stone national park
In a pool In a sand castle
In a skate park
In a bus
Near Mt. EVerest
On the site of the Twin Towers
On a plane
On a train
Any place that I can explain
Near a phone booth
Don't forget to call Ruth
Near a volcano in Hawaii
In a hotel
In a motel
Hilton is best
At Jamba Juice
2007-03-10 09:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 7⤋
Well, since you'll be with him "forever", you can wait until you are 18 and do not need your parents permission.
Get engaged now if you want, but have a 2+ year engagement.
How long have you two been dating? How do your parents feel about it? I'm guessing they aren't too into it since you want to do it without parental permission.
I would really wait. Talk to your parents.
2007-03-10 12:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No place. And in some counties you must appear before the court judge even WITH parental permission.
I suggest you wait until your at least of legal age.
What about your education? If something happens to this young man are you capable of supporting the two of you & children? Are you going to have go move back home to Mommy's with a family, or are you expecting the rest of us to support you through financial aid?
If it's true love, it will wait.
2007-03-10 10:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by weddrev 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
U can't. If you are underage, you can't get married without your parents permission. If you want my advice, you need to wait, because what you want at 16 may not be what you want at 18.
2007-03-10 11:00:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋