To all those in happy relationships!?

Question

How often do you fight with your significant other? How do you resolve fights? How can two people not fight so much? How often do you have small fights and how often do you have large fights? How do you not let fighting get you down?

Answer 1

Yeah, all our fights our stupid and we both feel bad about them. However its not like a weekly or monthly thing, it just happens every so often. WE DON'T YELL. Make sure you don't yell, it helps a lot. Guys and girls are just different, and the sooner you two realize that the better. To say a couple never fights is kinda hard to believe, and shouldn't really be a goal. Just make sure the fights aren't violent and loud. If someone has to leave for a couple hours to think, then its ok! And NEVER bring up past fights to use against the other person. You guys will be fine

Answer 2

lol my boyfriend of more than a year and i have a big fight at least once a week. but its not always a bad thing b/c it keeps it interesting. i wouldnt want somebody to just roll over and take it like a baby would you? agree with everything you said and never challenge you of course not! we resolve it by just forgetting it happened the next day we already said what had to be said and now its over so we move on. you always fight with ppl you care about. look at parents and siblings but you dont love them any less right? i mean its different if its like abusive but just yelling isnt always bad. i always feel bad after we fight but then i just think how great he is and that hes not always the one who starts them i know when im on my period im bitchy and it makes him bitchy i know he loves me. being around somebody all the time sometimes gets irritating. but its just something you have to work on and get through. everybody fights.

Answer 3

We never fight we're in love. Maybe you should break up with this guy. If you fight like a lot then you probably aren't in love.