HELP!
Ok I knew this guy for like 1 1/2 years now..but he lives 2 hours away from me so we never really had the chance to hang out except when he got a promotion job for 3 days in my place. So we thought this is a great chance too meet. I admit we often talked about kinky stuff & wanna spend time with each other but I wasnt serious about doing it for real. So he came here at my place & met. Well I can't deny that he's cute.. we kissed & had oral sex. I'm virgin & so is he. We went thru everythng besides penetration. Now we're supposed 2 meet again before he leave but his car got really stocked and so he couldnt come. We talked on the phone & he said don't forget him & the unforgettable night.
But he's the problem..I'm starting to like him.. & I knew from the beginning he's not the "bf" type & he's only for fun.. but still despite all of this I want to take care of him? It's so weird..I know what type of guy he is but deep inside I want him to be all mine.
What should I do?
HELP!
2007-03-10 09:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, ask him if he wants to be with you in a relationship. If he says no, then move on, don't persue a relationship that has no stability! There are planty of men out there that are willing to spoil you. Good Luck!
A.L.
2007-03-17 11:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. I have had encounters in my past I though were so unforgettable. But over time the luster fades. Do you feel he is the one to give your priceless gift of virginity too? Even if he feels great about boinking you and you being his 1st penetrative sexee but not much more? You want to take care of him. Are you game for all those "other" small details neither of you are thinking about because you still have groping arms and wondering tongues on your mind? What about were to live? You willing to move in with him? He willing to move in with you? Do you want him to? And if he moves in with you and wants to change things, some majorly, you down with that? what if he wants to change the diet, the foods you eat? There is way MORE to consider than just how well he nibbles a c*** or handles your t*i*t*s. You can not spend your whole relationship in the bedroom so you best figure out how it works outside the bedroom on the day to day.
2007-03-18 01:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure.......Why not......meet him again! Be a fool for the 2nd time. I really do not know how people have such disrespect for themselves. Do you really still think your honor as a virgin is still INTACT? Just because you did not have sexual intercourse, do you think you are a fine upstanding young Lady??? When this guy goes back to wherever, you can be sure he will "forget" the unforgettable night.....That is, until next time, when he's back in town, then I'm sure he will look you up. Sorry, but too many girls need to think about their values. Kudos to those of you that do!
2007-03-18 09:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife admits a mistake u need to forgive and move on...u need to man up here. It is granted she made a bad decision. If you want to have a future for ur daughter and move things along just be the stronger person and forgive(then forget). You also need to go to counseling and work out what issues have existed between both of you so things Will gel better. A marriage is the best friends, lover, and partnership. You need to make sure those areas are working well. If not you need to focus where things are weak and shore it up. Marriage is for better or worse, not when I am sick of my partner I need to divorce and find somebody else - remember the vow both of you took.
2016-03-28 23:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he can't give you what you want than run far far away. nothing hurts more than wasting your time trying to change a man that doesn't want to change. On the other hand if you still want to hang around with him despite that fact that he can't give you what you want than I suggest that you beat him at his own game. The same way he treats you, you have to treat him. Make him feel like it's a privilege to talk to you.
2007-03-18 07:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Sassy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like its just a lust or fantasy situation..people always want what they can't have. in these situations its almost guarenteed that if you spend every day with this man..you will probably not get along because your expectations are so high of what you expect that it won't be like that in person
2007-03-18 09:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all fall for the bad guys maby if you act to good he will fall for you.
2007-03-18 09:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sober up....it probably wasn't even that good.
2007-03-18 02:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Just Tryin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him
2007-03-18 01:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋