i worked with this guy 5 years ago we got on really well we had abit of fun never slept together,we did text and talk on the phone then just lost contact,i know he still works there as i live near,should i go and see him and just ask him out? i cant stop thinking of what could be!!
2007-03-10 09:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by DREAMER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely, make it a suprise "I was just in the area" go for lunch and see what happens from there. You've nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck
2007-03-10 09:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Crayon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am more concerned that you are still thinking of someone from a long time back - is there something in the present that is hurting ? Going back isn't always a good move but if you feel you must close that book, then try and arrange a chance meeting and just chat and exchange mobile numbers - after all you may not have moved on after 5 years but he may well have got married and have 3 kids by now! I still think its worth investigating why you feel the need to do this - tell aunty em what troubles you!!
2007-03-10 17:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either text him or call him, and say. Hi this is dreamer. or what ever your real name is. I don't know but recently thought about you. How are you, and what happening. Something along those lines. See how the conversation goes. He might be married, or have a special someone, so don't ask him out.Just feel out the situation. I amsure he will be glad to heara from you even if it is just for good old time sake.
2007-03-10 17:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it babe, go see him and ask him out. Wither it has been 5 years or 15 years, it makes no difference because if you like this guy then why live your life wondering what if.
Life is too short to put of going for what you want.
Good luck xxx
2007-03-10 17:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he's still single? If you live near by, just 'happen' to be walking past one day when you know he comes out of work. If he's interested, you can take it from there. If he isn't, at least you'll know!
2007-03-10 17:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go see him. Think of a different reason to go over there, just in case he has a girlfriend or something, just so you won't be embarrassed. See how he reacts when he sees you and take it from there. Good Luck.
2007-03-10 17:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately stop in to see him. don't appear too deseperate, just tell him you were in the area and thought of him. look very cute when you go. show some skin, but not too slutty, show some confidence and ask him, "lets, catch up can i take you out for a drink?"
2007-03-10 17:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by OpenMePoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should definatly go see him. but first i would ask around to see if he is still available. and then i would flirt with him a little bit, you know to let him know that you're intrested and then you can ask him out.
2007-03-10 17:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by boogerbutt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart...but why you have these feelings now after 5 years
2007-03-12 02:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by happychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it sounds like a good connection
2007-03-10 17:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋