whats going on with girls?

Question

in highschool there were so many girls that liked me and wanted to spend time with me, now in college girls dont come
its weird its like i have lost my touch or something and they act as if they are to hot to talk

is it me am i that ugly what has happend

here is a pic

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=me_and_deen.jpg

Answer 1

Nah, you're pretty good looking.
It could possibly be the fact that after high school, girls look for someone because of their personallity.
Whereas in high school, we just go for the guy we like because he's cute.

Answer 2

Deen, it's not you. Girls change as they get older and more mature. What was hot for them when they were little is different today. You should know that women as they get older begin to look not just at how you look but how you would be as a mate. Instinctively, they are looking for a life partner not just a guy to hang out with. Contrary to what you think, most women want a successful, good looking, caring, and intelligent guy. Try looking at dating websites also. Sometimes you can network that way and find local girls in your area.

Remember, you have the rest of your life to date women. You will find some that still act like they did in high school. Keep looking and don't give up. Pursue your education and don't worry about dating. It will happen if you are looking for them or not. Colleges are full of single and available women. You just have to be patient. You will find them.

Answer 3

ok calm down my friend.
you will probably find that alot of the other guys feel the same and the same thing has happened to them but they wont admit it.
they will get all macho and tell you how many of the girls they have had and so on.
now you are in college some of the girls may have changed and attitudes have changed, a lot of these girls maybe more focused on what they are studying in college and a future career, while at the same time you are just as into girls as you was before but are noticing that you aint getting as much attention, you aint become ugly overnight its just that these girls have different outlooks or most of them do.
My advice is to mix in some different circles of friends go different places and so forth. I bet you get the results you are looking for.
good luck mate!!

Answer 4

hahahhah that first post was funny

well usually bob comes to these to make fun of the people that have their pictures up, but their aint much to make fun of here.

so bob will try to answer the question instead
its probobly just cause the girls in high school is still immature and ****, bob dont know, maybe those girls liked you while the ones in college dont.

Answer 5

Maybe you are acting stuck-up like they should be running to you and throwing themselves at your feet. Lighten up. You'll find a girl just give it time. Pay more attention to your studies than to finding someone. You look just find and you are not ugly! Don't act like you're all that! Be sincere and not a dog in heat.

Answer 6

to answer you question No you are not ugly..
The girls youu used to know and flock to y ou were in high school wich was more laid back not they are young woman looking for there carears and are not trying to focus on guys. Don't stress

Answer 7

in high school it is easy to be a big fish in a small pond so to speak , once you get to collage there are a lot more choices for the ladies to choose from

Answer 8

Maybe it's your attitude. To me, you seem kind of conceited. No offense, maybe you're not, but it's not just looks. Personality means a lot. Show them you're a good guy. I hope this helps

nicole

Answer 9

its cause the girls in high school are whores....while the college girls are less whore-ish

Answer 10

you gotta stay out of the dark dude, you blend in too much