i have been mean to my lil sis and vro what should id do.
2007-03-10 08:57:59 · 16 answers · asked by sara 19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whenever you feel like you are getting mad at them, bite your tongue and count to 10 its so relaxing and you won't flip out on them. Also take the time to hang out with your siblings, and not always just your friends. You will learn things about them, and form a closer bond. I tend to make a big breakfast for my siblings, and they really enjoy it! Watch what they want to watch on tv, wrestle gently with them (if you have a brother), read them books, and try to treat them like you would treat a friend. The one thing you shouldn't do though is hit your siblings; this is unnecessary and intolerable. They will never forgive you for it either. Try to have fun with them, and let the good times roll!
2007-03-10 09:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by kindaworried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with her.. Ask her what she wants to do. Get her a new game that the two of you can play together. What kinds of things is she into? How old is she? Depending on those things, you could have a tea party with her (if she's little and into that kind of stuff) or go out in the backyard and pass a soccer ball or play catch with each other. If she's hurt because you were mean to her, definitely apologize. Hope this helps :)
2007-03-10 17:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by ..rae..♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being mean and have some fun with them. I'm always telling my kids how important siblings are. These are the people you'll know longer than ANYONE in life. Longer than your parents, longer than your spouse, longer than any friend. I'm not sure how old your little sis and bro are, but do something that they will think is fun. I bet you'll have fun too!
Good luck :)
2007-03-10 17:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry for number 1 ! And do stuff with her often. If she is a little sister, like young, you should be f**king ashamed of your self. Think about her feelings, not just yours!
DO THE RIGHT THING! Just playing games or playing with her dolls with her, will make her happy!
2007-03-10 17:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by My Lord . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your siblings feel better. take them out on a day somewhere fun or spend the day with them. Just dont take your anger out on them. Don't blame yourself cuz we're all human and you make mistakes and so do your siblings. Also be sure to just be friendly to them and smile =D after all, they're only kids
2007-03-10 17:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Miracleman91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i aint a sister, i am a brother but when my sister are mean to me what they do is buy me something i really want or take me to a place i really want to go so thats a way to be a nice sister
hope this answer works for you
2007-03-10 17:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and do something with them. Like play a game together.
2007-03-11 01:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Tami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to learn about the concept of self-lessness. I.e. try to see that the world is a better place when we care more about others than we do ourselves!
2007-03-10 17:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know we have the same problem. I am always a meany to my younger, older sister and only brother.
But we still get along!!! I'm just usually hot-tempered and moody and they all know that..
I try to explain to them to understand how i act towards them sometimes.......and luckily they do...
2007-03-10 17:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by GerMel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to do things she wants and talk 2 her and let her open up without being rude or mean
2007-03-10 17:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by turboprincess1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋