he broke up with me 4 days ago. We went out for 2 years.
I feel like it was all my fault he broke up with me and I am am willing to change for him. but he me he never wanted to talk to me again. Should I wait awhile before I call him? Even if I don't get back to him I just want to tell him somethings and get ,y feeliongs off my chest.
2007-03-10 08:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hr broke up with me beacause I was a nagginh bi tch. I always bothered him when he smoked weed, and I always made fun of him and put him down. I don't know why I did this. He said he could not take me anymore. I love him....I don't know what to do
2007-03-10 08:43:30 · update #1
I know I did wrong I was h is girl and I did not help him. I use to *****, He lives in a room...I could of helped him with rent and been nice, but instread I made him go crazy and he said he hated me.
2007-03-10 08:44:32 · update #2
sorry for my spelling I am realy upset
2007-03-10 08:45:05 · update #3
iI THOUGHT WE WOULD BE TOGETHER FORVER, WE PLANNED OUR FUTURES OUT TOGETHER:/
2007-03-10 08:55:07 · update #4
Honey, you cannot change to please man. You will lose who you are. Don't call him. If he can call you names then his love isn't worth having. Trust me, I;ve been through it!
2007-03-10 08:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for YOU to handle this is simple: nothing gets you over the last one like the next one. I know that sounds harsh but it works. And you feeling like it was your fault is probably exactly how he wants you to feel and probably had a big part in making you feel that way. It's a great excuse for him...especially if you accept responsibility with no questions asked. I know how hard it can be to swallow words that are left unsaid and move on, but in this case I think it will benefit you in the big scale of things. Besides these faults of yours that you should apparently change might actually be a virtue in the eyes of someone else...and when you find that person the words you had to say to this guy before won't even be in your thoughts anymore...keep your chin up and let confidence take over. Change my ***!!!
2007-03-10 16:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Be honest. Don't be upset if he's still mad. I'd give it some time.
Remind him of a good time you two had together. If he won't talk to you, maybe leave him a message. Don't be all over him too much about it though. Don't make it seem like you're still clingy or anything.
If that doesn't work, maybe you should try to get over him. If it's hurting you that bad, you really don't want to be with him. The person you love shouldn't hurt you. Even if it's only emotionally. I hope this helps. Good luck
nicole
2007-03-10 16:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a breath and some time to consider your feelings seriously .... and allow him time to also thnk. Allow several days for a cooing off period. Anything real will still be there later. With your feelings now you are not in a condition to be rational and logical anyway. Write your feelings down and reread and refine them tomorrow and over the next few days until you can say what you REALLY want to say.
2007-03-10 16:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by hvfunwme2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it was not your fault if it was cuz he was smoking weed then it was a good decision look i broke up with my ex like 15 days ago i dont even remember his name look you'll get over it i know that this is not what you wanna here but its true you'll get over it ok just do somethin to destract your self think of all the cut guys out there who are free and maybe like you :)
2007-03-10 16:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,d say get rid of everything he gave you or anything that reminds you of him and also maybe get a new b/f or amybe a male friend for the time being.you,ll be fine it just takes some time to heal!
2007-03-10 16:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by aleah2515 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy , just keep yourself busy... Find a hobby or do something.
2007-03-10 16:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woh.... 4get him... imagine the future.... do u think he'll stay with u 4ever? TRUST CHICKADEE! ps... i was sorta in the same relationship... help, im me: melrocks144
2007-03-10 16:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋