i felt like i found the most amazing guy everr. then i started going out with him he was still really nice, but at the end of our relationship he seemed really depressed & seemed like he was losing interest, but when he was my ex. he was extremely nice again, he texted me like the whole day. [day after he broke up with me] ,kept flirting & he kept making me laugh and everything. then he asks me out again and i said yess. but now since i am going out with him again hes acting depressed, and i keep asking wats wrong and hes just ignoring me.. why does he act sad when we are going out but then acts really happy and flirts with me when we are just "friends"
2007-03-10 08:38:02 · 7 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This same thing is happening to me...The reason he isn't talking to you is because he really doesnt want you..Most guys at this age act all sweet, but they truely only want one thing. You were perfect in his eyes: he could go out with other girls but have you as a fall back buddy. You were his backup plan. He wanted to be able to mess around with you until he got off and then drop you like a hot potatoe. That's his game. What you need to do is stand up for yourself and reject him. And once you stand up for yourself, which is the right thing to do on your part, he will figure that you arent falling into his perfect plan and dropp you for another girl he can use. Once tat happens wat u need to do is nothing. Trust me, you are better off without him. Please see that you don't mean anything to him. And trust me once u leave him, he will come crawling back sometime when he is alone and probably looking to score. Don't give in, stand up for the kind of relationship you deserve and don't settle for less. Trust me, you will thank me later.
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2007-03-10 08:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know maybe something is bothering him or he is just not ready for a relationship or either he is just scared of getting heartbroken and losing you, Just talk to him about it i know its hard. Like ask him can we have a real talk and just sit there with him and tell him how its making you feel that you are sad when he is and what is going on with him, tell him exactly what you are saying on here, say why are you happy after you break up with me, maybe he is just playing games with you to see if you really love him wich he shouldnt be doing that to you, try to have a talk with him and straitin things out the best that you can
2007-03-10 16:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's just not happy when you and him is in a relationship. he seems confused and doesn't really know what he wants. i guess he does this because he wants to be with you but deep down he knows its not going to work when you and him is together. he probably hasn't come to grips with you and him just being friends. i think you should step back and give him some space. tell him that you don't want to do this on again off again thing and maybe you and him is better off as friends because you can't stand to see him depressed and its making you unhappy as well.. just talk to him.. he probably has a lot on his mind.
2007-03-10 16:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he likes u when he doesnt go out with you, becuz hes a player... he likes options and freely being able to control u.... but now its hard to break up with u cuz he doesnt wanna hurt u.... he doesnt like to kiss u in public, does he? TRUST CHICKADEE help, im me: melrocks144
2007-03-10 16:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him...he sounds like a low-life to me
2007-03-10 16:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's afraid of commitment
2007-03-10 16:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he has issues...move on
2007-03-10 16:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋