2007-03-10 08:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's one of the easiest and painless things you could ever do. It comes down to treating each other as if one of you will die tomorrow on a daily basis. The little things like holding hands, a warm hug, a light kiss to the neck, flowers for no special reason, looking into each others eyes, opening a door for your wife, helping her put her coat on, listening to each others every word without interrupting, and saying I Love You a million times a day(and meaning it!). These are the things that you miss more than anything in your life when they are taken from you. Everything I have ever learned about romance was taught to me by a wife that had enough love in her heart(and showed it to me daily) that it made it easy to give back. Romance isn't anything new, abnormal, or hard to provide if you care about each other enough. It will come from inside the heart not the mind. Give yourself completely all day every day and you will receive it if your husband/wife feels the same way.
2007-03-10 08:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugs and kisses for no special reason.
Saying "I love you". And meaning it.
Leaving little notes for the other person to find.
Being considerate in little ways: opening doors, getting up to get something for the other person, anticipating their needs.
Exploring the world together -- even if "the world" is just "that restaurant across town we've been meaning to try".
Sharing a fruity drink.
Trying new things.
Trying new things in bed.
Taking a shower together.
Couples massage.
Taking a class together to learn something new.
Taking an interest in something that interests the other person.
Candlelight dinners.
Sexy glances.
Curling up by the fire.
A casual hand on the other person's arm or leg.
Taking a walk together.
Holding hands.
Above all, showing that you care for the other person, and that they are special to you!
2007-03-10 16:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by kittenpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep it alive by acting as though it's still the first time we ever met. Then again, I also go about how long I've been in the relationship and how in love I am with my fiance. I take into consideration the fact that he is the father of my baby, and that their is nothing that feels more passionate than that.
2007-03-10 16:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out your lovers secert wishes like for an example they've always wished they could eat dinner on a beach then go for it. There's no surefire way to keep it alive but if you really care about them and you really want to and you try then it'll work. Also maybe try for the personal slave for a day it doesn't have to be about sex or anything like that but it can too. Use your imagination.
2007-03-10 16:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are SO many ways to keep the spark but I'll only share my personal favorites here ..lol
Love notes on his pillow ,or in his shirt pocket so he'll find it later in the day.When he's out of the house light candles and run a bubble bath ,make the bathroom as romantic as possible (music etc) and when he comes home ..AMBUSH him ..lol
Call him at work and ask him what he's wearing in your sexiest voice ..phone sex is incredible to boost the anticipation.And lastly , ROLL PLAY ROLL PLAY ROLL PLAY ...get yourself a sexy little maid outfit and pretend to be dusting (with no panties) when he comes home ..it's be terrific .Trust me ! ;) Good Luck !!!
2007-03-10 16:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by tammie1ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you work at it and do everything you can to try new things and don't take each other forgranted...go on dates, try fantasy, new positions whatever is new to keep it fresh and fun.....spoil each other, buy each other silly little gifts, leave each other love notes.....think of all the things that would make you smile if your spouse did them and then do them yourself for them
2007-03-10 16:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do special things for that person every now and then ,even if its not something expensive, just nice litle gestures that show you love the person and care.
2007-03-10 16:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by aleah2515 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be random and spontanious- send flowers/chocolate for no reason. send that special someone a note or invitation to dinner for no reason
2007-03-10 16:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to victoria secret and try some new positions ;)
2007-03-10 16:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by canthearu12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM........ JUST KEEP ON TELLING HIM/HER THAT YOU LOVE THEM.
GO OUT ON DATES.
ALWAYS HANG OUT.
GOOD LUCK.
[YAY 2 POINTS!]
2007-03-10 16:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋