Thi girl i like is always extremely stressed out, how can i help her through it?please help?

Question

We both like each other, shes given me all the hints, but im too stupid to ask her out, but im now to a point where im going to do it, but i want to do it in a special way to at least let her know i care for her. The thing is ,shes always stressed from study, and is always telling me this too, so i was thinking of getting her something to remind her to stop stressing out, like a cool gift she can look back at?.....need ideas. Its gone out of control, as i think she thinks i dont like her back, cause ive never really showed her any signs, apart from being around her, and shes always giving me hints....what should i do, she started asking me bout whether she should get back with her ex or not, and other stuff as well....but she flirts with me heaps.....i need to do something to show i like her though, it looks as though she thinks im not into her, which is totally the opposite, whats a good gift to get for a stressed girl?

Answer 1

Well, the gift doesn't really matter that much. Just let her know how you feel.

Answer 2

I'm having a hard time coming up with something too because you haven't showed your interest for her. So maybe you could just give her a simple single rose, in a vase so she can keep it in her locker till she can bring it home. Also a card with it explaining you're worried about her being so stressed out and you have been wanting to ask her out but didn't seem like the right time before because she seems to be confused about her ex and you did not want to get in the middle of it if she wasn't over him yet. Also ask her if she would like to go and get a bite to eat and just relax for a little while or a movie or whatever you think she might like to do. I use to love going skating, not ice, at a rink it's just good fun. You get what I mean. Just find something to do that is fun and relaxing. You don't have to do the rose thing if you don't want to but do the card if you want. This way she knows you care and want to take her out for real. You can keep it simple like... I've been worried about you being stressed out and would like to take you out so you can relax a bit. I have been wanting to let you know I care and like you but have been too nervous to ask you before. ect. ect. if you want to say more. Pick out a funny card that's not all serious and stuff. The card she'll keep and can look back on a read it again to remind her you like and care about her. Whatever you do do not have the word love anywhere this will scare her away. Good luck hope it helps. It would be great if you could e-mail me to let me know how it went. I am a sucker for romance stories. Don't worry I am not being fresh I'm really old. Well not that old. Sincerely Michele

Answer 3

k so obviously this girl cares alot about her school work and grades if shes that stressed out about it, so try to help her study or help her with stuff she isn't sure about. Even if you don't know study stuff doesn't mean you can't try to help her. For the first date do something relaxing. Tell her that she is obiously really stressed and maybe if she could go out and chill tonight. As always, you can take her to a nice dinner, give her some flowers, and maybe go to a concert or go somewhere that you can just relax and listen to music. Don't be to pushy either, and don't expect the first kiss or anything. Just make it a nice relaxing time anywhere you think she might like to go that would be tremendous fun for both of you. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Absolutely. Especially when it really matters because karma is a universal law and you can't mess with mother nature. What you give out comes back to you so for every lie you tell ... you will receive negativity in return. Eventually all lies are found in one way or another and then you look much worse than if you would have just owned up to your mistake(s). It's truly sad how easily kids seem to be able to lie these days and how they aren't immediately willing to take responsibility for their actions and choices. Every year in school I put up a poster that reads: "Tell the TRUTH. That way you don't have to remember what you said." It's so true ... lies weave a tangled web and no matter how hard you try to catch and stop it ... the truth eventually does shine right on through the cracks. =) Peace and the simple beauty of truth to you always! =) ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Oh look! The thumbs down trolls are out! Obviously they can't handle the truth! lol ;-)

Answer 5

I think it is nice that you want to get her a gift, but it sounds like the most important thing is that you act now, and don't wait much longer. The preparation it takes for a gift may delay you from just sharing your feelings.

You can get her a little teddy bear, but the best gift you can give her is to let her know your feelings. That will be a stress reliever, I am sure!

Good Luck!

Answer 6

You should know by now some of the things that she's into...every girl is different and believe it or not flowers don't always work. I think most times it is as easy as listening...she has probably mentioned things (however small) that she likes that she thinks you would never remember...a book she likes, a movie she wants to see, a resturant she wants to try, a hobby she has...anything to do with you noticing who she is and what she likes, especially if she thinks you haven't caught on to that part of her, then it is a real and true surprise. Also keep track(through conversation) of the things about her ex that she DOESN'T like...you'll know how to keep her from making that decision in no time.

Answer 7

A punching bag; no get her one of thoses funny face things that you throw on the grownd and they say things grunting noises or a realy squichie round stress ball and a big bunch of flowers.
Take her out for dinner and when the waiter is handing out the desert you pass her a red rose kiss her on the ceeck and say i love you or i like you do you want to go out with me. She will defently remember that one then when your walking her home buy her some cotten candy or a teddy if therre are any shops open. Or just get it the next morning when you come to see her after that wonderfull night . She will then be in your eye forever.

Answer 8

Tell her you like her at that maybe somethme you could go out together to the movies or something and then talk to her abou ther problem about being stressed out and ask her if there is anything that you can do to help her not get sooooooooo stressed out.

Just talk to her ok?

Answer 9

This girl I liked a few months backed was overstressed from work from school. Every day I walker her home and eventually we started dating, but don't make it obvious, don't go "Hey I feel really bad about your stess lets go out now" no, say "hey i'm just as stressed as you are and what helps is to let off some steam, I'm going to____ right now if you want to come with me" thats how it works dude

Answer 10

get her a day planner... pick out a cool one that is versatile and can be used anywhere (small enough to travel) and when you give it to her , write on the date box for that days date, " will you go out with me" it is very sweet , original and she was always have it to look back on. Plus the planner will help her get her time limit straight so she wont be so stressed out. good luck

Answer 11

You dont need gifts my man, take her out, go to a movie, dinner anything, it'll take her mind off things and get her to realize you have feelings for her, and just take it from there, but dont rush into a relationship if you realize its what you both want. Go on some dates and take it slow, if shes definatly into you then you're good to go.