I'm not gay and I'm good looking but I havent had sex yet because I can overcome my fear of getting aids and I would only do it with someone who demonstrates me that she's healthy. I also like to be honest and sincery but I'm having lots of problems. Women either dont believe me or think that I'm gay and run away.
2007-03-10 08:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think its adorable that you havent had sex.Just let them get to know you better so that it doesnt mater that youre a virgin.Besides, youre never gay until you youreself believe it.
2007-03-10 08:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't actually need to tell every woman you meet about this. Surely it's only relevant to the woman you intend to have sex with? Whilst it's healthy to be aware of protecting yourself against HIV/AIDS your fear seems a little excessive. I suggest you educate yourself on the subject rather than expecting someone to 'demonstrate she's healthy'. There is no way other than a blood test to be certain someone does not have HIV. There is also no guarantee you are healthy just because you are a virgin. Have you ever had a blood transfusion for example?
2007-03-10 16:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. This is a rarety. It may only exist in very few parts of the world. Very, very few. Even though there is a movie out on this. A comedy called the 40 year old virgin. It is still rare and always will be. I think you should just be honest and never lie about it. It will return to you.
2007-03-10 16:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, I'm 13, and let me tell you something, comdoms reduce the chance of getting an hiv by almost 85 precent. If they don't believe you, joke along with it, and trust me, someone out there wont care because they understand values. just stay calm, move slow, when the time is right you know and once your that far pray to what ever greater power you believe in that she wont back down. Also, make yourself look as experienced as possible, the dont are the following,
No coldplay (music)
no wierd hair removal
no ugly posters
no overexpierenced women
2007-03-10 16:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by The Chairman Of Jazzy Films 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to lie about it, but you can say that you don't want to talk about it. Get to know the woman first. When you both decide to take it a step further, you could tell her eventually.
This is not an issue, I can assure you. Personally, I think it's much better that a man is a virgin than that he has slept with too many.
Take care!
2007-03-10 16:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I would almost do an experiment with that...posting two personal ads, one stating that you're a 40 year old virgin and the other without mention of it. You could do it anonymously and take note of which ad got more responses.
2007-03-10 16:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Luna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all this crap! How about I screw you deep in the anus with condom on and break that so called 40 year old virginity. I will tie a bandana around my nose to block the smell. Then only will you scream out that your just a 40 year old ugly looking whore.
2007-03-10 16:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Corn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont lie.. that will make things work..... dont be afraid of AIDS. ur 40. if u dont wanna be a virgin, go get a girl, and have fun with it
2007-03-10 16:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by goma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to lie! as long as you are not trying to get with someone who is "over experienced" they wouldn't have any reason to get scared. try e-harmony for a relationship and playboy for a steamy time
2007-03-10 16:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. being a 40 year old virgin is kinda weird but i guess be honest with it because incase you are really bad then she will know. and watch the movie 40yr old virgin. that will give you some hints i guess.
2007-03-10 16:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋