I've been dating a girl with almost no prior friendship, where together for a while and then she told me that she doesnt want a us to get to serious, because one of us going to get hurt. So whe called it quits. But the problem is she keeps on flirting with me, and I'm not interested in "just messing around". and to make things worse friday night when our group of friends went out she started kissing one of my other friends. I think I'm just screwed.
2007-03-10 08:01:14 · 12 answers · asked by Rock_With_Da_Mole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just forget her. Chances are, you will break up again, or she will break up with you or use you or cheat on you, which is very likely, she is a girl ya know. Then you will be sad, so just stay single its the best way to go.
2007-03-10 08:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ignorant Guy. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to salvage a relationship that has went sour is very hard to do. Once a woman has made up thier mind to leave a guy, its normal for the guy to be bitter and want to rush back and make things "all better" again. When you left him, he felt that change in his life and he didnt like it! He is never going to except just being friends with you because very seldom does this type of thing happen. If you enjoyed his friendship then you should have stayed just friends, but when you both took it to another level then it became something more...Now its gone and there is not going back. You should give up altogether on him and just find someone new. You sound intelligent and cute so keep on keeping on cutie!
2016-03-28 23:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A problem alot of my friends deal with, let me tell you one time I had this one girl who LOVED me, she would hug me hold me kiss me what ever. The from being succumb to alot of pier pressure I vandalized her locker and wrote a just plain awful note that made her cry, I feel really bad now and she still likes me, I can tell that because she did not tell a teacher the crime I committed and she stares at me all day, drop it, and give your friend a pat on the back and congratulate him because a girl that messes you up in the head is a girl worth going after, maybe thats why there are tons of bad relationships in scociety, see ya
2007-03-10 08:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by The Chairman Of Jazzy Films 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like shes afraid of getting hurt, but still wants you. Figure out what you want and if you don't want her leading you on then tell her. I went out with my ex for 6 months and we broke up and are still great friends. We both know were not getting back together, but we both flirt with each other all the time, because thats just how we act with each other. As far as kissing one of your friends it seems like she wants to you be jealous.
2007-03-10 08:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,wat u need 2 do is avoid being around her,u seem like ur a lil' hurt by the fact that she kissed one of ur friends. So y would u wanna be where shes @. I mean u can be friends, but dnt become too close,,just say hi & bye.
2007-03-10 08:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can be friends! You can even flirt and such, as long as you don't let it get in the way of other relationships... If you feel yourself getting jelous and it effects the way you are with other friends, you may want to distance yourself further from her. It also isn't healthy if it is keeping you from getting into a relationship with a girl you could be really happy being with!
2007-03-10 08:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a confused girl who is going to hurt herself with being as promiscuous as she is. Dont pay so much attention to her anymore and she wont swindle you. Your not screwed up my friend because, unlike her, you sound like you know what you want when you say you dont just want to mess around. Do you know what they call girls who like to just mess around?
2007-03-10 08:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she was trting to make you jealous by kissing your friend and second the friendship will never work when you have one person that likes you as more than a friend and the other only likes her as a friend. let her go complelty and things will be better.
2007-03-10 08:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but you could remain friends. Just tell her not to get so drunk, or tell her to stop flirting, and really, if she carries on embarresing you, just ignore her.
2007-03-10 08:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her she seems like the type that's only interested in one night stands anyway..ur better off her anyway.
2007-03-10 08:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by bye bye!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋