What can I say to make my boyfriend Trust me again?

Question

He want's to know how he can trust me again.... But I have no idea what to say / nohing I do say is good enough. I didn't cheat, and it's over something small, but I'm stuck... And this could be it.

it's something small -- I talked to a guy I used to know, it was a " hello, hellO' End of conversation thing, and it meant nothing, but my boyfriend is all worked up and wants to know how he can trust me. I don't have an answer..

Answer 1

Depends on what you did, and what kind of guy you have. More info please.

Thanks. Apparently this is really bothering him, so the best thing to do is sit down and have a serious conversation. Reassure him that this guy you said 'hi' to means nothing to you, and that if you wanted to be with him, you would be. Also, it may help to tell him that his unnecessary distrust in you is putting a strain on your relationship, and he should tell you EXACTLY what is bothering him, so it can be addressed before your relationship is ruined over something stupid. Good luck.

Answer 2

Trust and respect are the two vital keys in any relationship, once they are dissolved there is usually no hope. If he cant trust you then there is nothing you can do - I am sorry, he may be immature because if you didnt cheat you prob just had communication with someone and he cant be like that, you are better off with out him. Just think of this in reverse, if you couldnt trust him would you stick around? Let him go, you will find someone else, and learn from it - whatever you did must have got him thinking so try not to do it again. Good Luck

Answer 3

AGAIN? what did u do the first time? Well u can't really DO anything, he has to develop it himself. Trust is very hard to earn and very easy to lose.

Answer 4

say, "I'm sorry".