Is there any tips from girls who have been in this situation before? Because Im having a hard time dealing with it but I love my boyfriend and I wont be one of those awful controling girlfriends I want him to keep his bestfriend cause that makes him happy, but how can I deal with it without going insane? His bestfriend is just so clingy and annoying!! He always wants to be in the middle of everything and always tries to put his extra two cents into everything! Help!
2007-03-10 07:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you explain to your boyfriend how you feel? you could just be like "i know your friends mean a lot to you, but could you maybe tell so-and-so to back off once in a while. he is starting to bug me." he should respect what you have to say, but that doesn't mean he is going to do anything about it. just try talking to him and see if he feels the same way. maybe his best friend is lonely and wants a gf, too.
2007-03-10 07:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should sit down and talk with your boyfriend. Try to make time for just the two of you, like somewhere other than school. And if you really have to, when you are dating or something, tell your boyfriend not to tell his friend. organize a date for just the two of you. If you are too young for that, then ask him to sit with YOUR friends at lunch for a change.
2007-03-10 07:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to like his bestfriend too? When you guys go out tell the clingy friend to get lost, and get his own life.
2007-03-10 07:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I love my boyfriend a lot but I also hate his bestfriend. He is so annoying and such a jerk. Just ask your boyfriend to ask his bestfriend to leave you guys alone sometimes. Or you can just ask yourself. Talking is the best solution.
2007-03-10 07:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Coolyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that ever happened to me I would just try to not hang out with your boyfriend when he is with his best friend or when you know his best friend is coming over try to get your boyfriend to with you to something you only have two tickets for.
2007-03-10 07:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by animal_lover1202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you "love" your boyfriend then you tolerate his best friend. You do not get to pick who your boyfriends are whether you like them or not. Suck up and deal with it
2007-03-10 07:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become her friend too . w / time after u get past the jealousy u might like her!
2007-03-10 07:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋