My boyfriend of 6yrs. just wont grow up! we have two kids together. and hes 24. But i broke into his myspace, and he talkin to other girls, trying to say that hes single. i dont want to approch him yet cause i wanna see how far it all goes. but inside its killing me!! I feel like i'll never be good enough. But im so in love with him! hes a wonderful father, and our realationship is really good. But hes doing all this behind my back.... should i say something?? or just let it go??
2007-03-10 07:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by nyki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have some major issues to deal with. Good father aside, you are obviously not happy with this relationship. There are some serious breaches of trust going on if you have to resort to spying and breaking into his websites! It seems that you are confirming some suspicions you already had!
All that aside, because you love him, you really need to talk to him and let him know everything, including your concerns and feelings.
And take it from someone who knows - the WORST thing you would wanna do is see how far this goes because if given the chance, it will definitely go there!
If you want to continue your relationship with him, put a stop to it now.
2007-03-10 07:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say something to him. It will keeping "eating" at you if you keep it all bottled up. Ask him what he wants and expects from your relationship. Let him know that he can't be trying to talk to other girls and saying he is single if he wants to be in a relationship with you.
2007-03-10 15:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by NRM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in the bottom of your heart, you know what you need to do. If you haven't talked to him about it already, you probably won't. Furthermore, I think that "waiting to see how far it goes" is childish in itself. Set the limits (what activity and behavior is acceptable), enforce the limits (consequences for following/not following "the rules")....
Sit down and think about it. Good luck to you and yours. Another thing to question: are you in love or dependent on him (psychologically/physically)?
Just a thought.
2007-03-10 15:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well gal good that you find out...If I was you...I will just file for child support and yes dump him...Don't give him a reazon and move on...Because if you tell him that you break into his myspace he won't never trust you...So don't give him a reazon for why you dump him...And move on girl...ANd the one that will suffer here is him because you dump him before he had the chance to dump you...Say you fall out of love...Even if you do love him just move on and you will one day find someone that won't cheat on you...Because that is cheating...And do it for you kids too...They don't deserve to live in a home like this... Were is not emotional stability...
2007-03-10 15:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's talking to other girls on myspace and telling them he's single, you need to say something. he might be cheating on you, and what good is it to let it eat you up inside?
2007-03-10 15:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its only a matter of time before he cheats.
2007-03-10 15:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by the Animal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you have babies with no commitment. He is free to talk to anyone he pleases. You have absolutely no hold on him. Get smart next time.
2007-03-10 15:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it and let him know what u think
it will get worse if this goes on longer
2007-03-10 15:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Marnett Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to get his penis wet...since you can break into his myspace, delete it, confront him, and satisfy his desires
2007-03-10 15:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋