Im 21 years old and this 17 year old girl is always flirting with me when we are around each other, and she just told me that she has had a HUGE crush on me for 4 years now. She is realy pretty, and I realy like to be around her, but I dont know if she is to young to have a relationship with. Is she? (only 4 years) If so what should I do because, if we keep hanging out with each other, we will most likely in up in a bf/gf relationship.
2007-03-10 07:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by dizciple_316 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is exactly what I would do.....just hang out, get to know each other. The age thing is not that big of a deal if you like her. Attraction between two people doesn't take age into consideration. If the feelings are mutual between the both of you then I say go for it. In the very least at leadst you will have gained a good friend.
2007-03-10 07:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hang out with her around other people until she turns 18. There is nothing wrong with hanging out as long as there is no sex or sexual acts. Just dont be with her alone until she turns 18 that way you wont have to worry about making a mistake like sleeping with her.
2007-03-10 15:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you should be friends to know if you are really right for each other, you have a year do do that.
Keep it on a friends level. Friends don't french kiss each other and so on. Stay with other friends and have fun.
When she turns 18, ask her if she will grow old with you.
2007-03-10 15:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Butterflie927 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's fine, she'll be 18 soon anyway, so don't worry about it.
more than likely the law where you live would only say that you can't have sex with her...but really, as long as you don't hurt her in anyway you'll be ok there too.
2007-03-10 15:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your state laws for the age of consent. If its 17 or better than your in the clear. If not, deny! deny! deny!
2007-03-10 15:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by the Animal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would tell you to go for it, but there is one catch:
Getting involved with a 17-year old girl intimately is AGAINST THE LAW!!!!!
2007-03-10 15:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she turns 18 she's all yours!
2007-03-10 15:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. What's the biggie with age difference? Also, there's no harm, right?
2007-03-10 15:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want major problems,wait until she is 18. She's not legal yet.
2007-03-10 15:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just wait till she is 18.
2007-03-10 15:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋