were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.
2007-03-10 06:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just told me the other day, that this guy is after her, and that she doesnt know what to do, and she was wondering what i thought???......im hurting inside, but dont know if i should go for it or not??? she said it was an ex of hers who wants to try again. Also, i asked her for lunch once, and she never replied, then the same day she spoke to me later on, and acted as if nothing had happened, playing dumb of course, and didnt even mention me asking her for lunch via txt. Well yesterday, this girl advised me that shes going to the movies tonght with one of her ex's(dnno if on a date or not though), is she still into me or has already moved on?i saw her before, and she kept punching me before i left, and making contact.....whats all this mean?, im scared of losing her thats for sure, and i dont think ill like her if she goes out with someone anyway.....so please advise what i should do...
2007-03-10 06:58:44 · update #1
Dude, dont I repeat dont be a fool. Trust me man, I let a girl slip that I knew where interested just because I was to "shy". And trust me it's not cool in hindsight looking back, think "if only.." So bru stand up for what U want and knock her of her feet, good luck.
2007-03-10 07:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rock_With_Da_Mole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just a little nervous, that's normal; don't worry about it. If you're actually scared for any reason whatsoever, don't do it. Wait until you are comfortable. There is no reason at all to rush things, and you are awfully young yet. By the way, how old is he? Guys who chase after much younger girls are usually up to no good. Use protection whenever you do decide to go ahead: you can get pregnant and/or STDs even the very first time, and, just FYI, you can get STDs from oral sex. And no, you usually can't tell just by looking if someone has an STD. And yes, there are people with STDs who have unprotected sex anyway. There are even more who are infected but don't know it.
2016-03-28 23:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K...what I think is going on is that she has been trying to figure out if you're interested. Have you given her any encouragement? Does she know how you feel?
Her telling you about going out with exes and not knowing what to do, etc. sounds like a classic case of her trying to nudge you along and perhaps provoke a jealous reaction. Straight up, if you want her, tell her that the guy is her ex for a reason, and that the guy she should give a chance to is you. If she tells you she sees you only as a friend, then you have your answer and need to move on. If she reciprocates your feelings, then you're good to go.
2007-03-10 07:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by bcs_boadicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bag this girl shes on you. make it hapen she likes your company.
2007-03-10 07:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by p_val319 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her.
and it's pretty clear she likes you.
so come out and tell her.
2007-03-10 07:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋