Had it all planned out in my head......sat down to put it on paper and my mind went blank!! Writers block? Scared? Did I bite off more than I can chew? My lawyer sister is certified to perform the ceremony but this will be her first. Could anyone give me a couple ideas just to get me started? We are not religious but spiritual. Are having a sand ceremony instead of a unity candle. Outdoor, gazebo garden wedding. Thanks in advance for any ideas!!!
2007-03-10 06:46:17 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Here are some samples of wording for the vows that aren't particularly religious http://weddings.about.com/cs/bridesandgrooms/a/vowwording_2.htm?terms=responding+to+wedding+invitation
Here is some wording for the sand ceremony:
Officiant: (Bride/Groom) and (Groom/Bride) now come forth to seal their relationship through the mixing of the sands. Just as two lives together now join to become one, so will the individual sands become one as they are poured. It would be impossible to separate these sands, just as it would be impossible to separate (Bride/Groom) and (Groom/Bride)'s lives after today. This covenant is a relationship pledge between two people who love each other heartily and who agree that they will commit themselves to one another throughout their lives.
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Officiant: Now we shall celebrate this union as it is symbolized through the pouring of two individual containers of sand. One represents (Bride/Groom) and all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will ever be. The other represents (Groom/Bride) and all that you were and all that you are, and all that you will ever be. As the two vials of sand are poured into the third keepsake vase, the individual containers of sand ceased exist as they are now joined together as one. Just as these grains of sand can never be separated and poured again into the individual vases, so will the love and bond between the two of you render you inseperable.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-10 16:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by ladyj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ceremony composition isn't nearly as easy as most think. It takes some time, especially if one is customizing a ceremony for a couple. We all get writer's block from time to time. Might want to watch a wedding in a movie for inspiration.
This is how I usually do mine
Start out with why everyone is there.
The meaning of marriage
Prayer or reading
Charge to the couple.
Question of Intent, the "Do you take" part.
Wedding address (3-4 minutes for an informal ceremony)
Vows
Ring exchange
Unity ceremony
Blessing/closing words
Pronouncement
Kiss
Introduction
Take a trip to your library for ideas.
Make sure you sis also meets ALL the requirements for your county.
2007-03-10 06:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hope this helps....
http://www.ultimatewedding.com/articles/index.php?action=section&sec=37/
2007-03-10 16:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by jmya1030 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋