ive noticed that girls like to be with the "bad boy" girls say they like nice guys but never seem to be more than friends with the nice guys..why is this..what is about bad boys that attracts girls so much???
2007-03-10 06:37:23 · 37 answers · asked by T. N 7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think we like a mix of the two.
Sometime we want a bad boy when the situation call for it.
Other time we want a good boy when we have to take him home to meet MoM and Dad.
Just like men U want a layti in the street, but an freak in bed. right....
2007-03-10 06:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What attracts women above all else is *strength* in a man|
That is how women have been created.
Given a choice between a bad man who has power and a good man who has not, most women will go for the bad man with power every time|
This, unfortunately, is the cause of so many relationships where the woman is abused, because if the man is bad to others, he will be bad and abusive to her|
The way out of this impasse is to find a man who has *both* strength and goodness, so that he will be exciting to her and treat her well at the same time|
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2007-03-10 06:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends a lot on the girl...though I think the ones who do throw themselves at "bad boys" far outnumber the other kind.
When I first went off to college, I was a complete, utter piece of sh*t. (Ashamed to have to admit that now, but it's the truth.) I dated a lot of very sweet, nice girls...and treated most of them like the sorry scum that I was...and they ate it up. Now granted...there were some VERY attractive girls I was quite interested in...and they wouldn't have a damn thing to do with my sorry a.ss. So there are some real classy women out there, who recognize a jerk for what he is and will have nothing to do with him. But there sure are a lot of the other kind...and it always seems to be the real sweet, nice ones, too....the kind who "deserve better".
Wonder if there's some kind of inner psychological "rebellion" thing going on there?
2007-03-10 06:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do girls prefer bad boys to good boys?
2014-12-09 10:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are more attracted to "bad boys" beacuse there hot, girls know they will protect them, they seem mysterious, a girl is always wanting a bad boy so he can get in major trouble and scare her half to death but then she will be wrapped up in his arms when hes all better.
Its ok to be good but i find it that bad boys are much better beacuse when there always so nice they seem like there not tough, edgy, fearless, they seem like a wimp. Most girls mature though and go out with nicer and sweet guys later in there life.
2007-03-10 06:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not attracted to bad boys...I like good men...
haven't you noticed that the best relationships include being friends with the person you are with?
2007-03-10 06:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we like the bad boy look and when it comes to standing up for us to but the nice guy on the inside
2007-03-10 06:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girls who are just looking to have fun tend to fall for the bad boys more because they seem a little more adventurous (whereas they find "good" guys to be more safe), but when they start to settle down, they look more towards the guy that's right for them (whether he's good, bad, or neutral). the best thing you could do is be yourself, and you will find the right person.
2007-03-10 06:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find bad boys all hot and sexy. But most of the time I fall for the good guys. They are just so adorable and sweet and respectful. You can always trust the good guys too.
2007-03-10 06:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know it's the opposite of your parents wishes to me. We're told all our life to marry the good boy, and then when we're exposed to bad boys it heighten that curiousity level. Believe it or not, alot of bad boys are really good guys who are pretending to be bad. I've had my share of bad boys, and now I see that the good guys should always be the first choice. The make better husbands too!!!!!
2007-03-10 06:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Nish 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋