do u think my bf is cheap?...everytime he gets pay he always come with an excuse of paying bills?.....well.........not every time! but, when i ask for something is hard for me to get it......and i dont even ask for much..is he cheap?
2007-03-10 06:22:41 · 15 answers · asked by moreira0110 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't, Why does it have to be an excuse? It could be that he in a financial issue right now that he may find embarrasing, or does'nt want you to worry about. Mostly because he wants to feel like a "man" handling his own bussiness. It could also be that he is saving his money for something. But if your still upset, why don't you just ask him. You cant blame him for not being able to read your mind and know how your feeling. If he tells you that it really is bills or he is saving to buy something, tell him how you would appreciate even a little something now and then it doesn't have to be expensive. Let him know, there is no relationship without communication.
2007-03-10 06:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bills must come first realistically , he may not be cheap but just a bit inexperienced at money management . It can be very difficult at times to juggle your desires with your needs . I believe if he could do more than he would , just be a little patient with him if you can or discuss the issue . It's important that the two of you communicate with one another about most everything so you understand one another very well .
2007-03-10 06:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. depends on what u want from him. I'm old school and believe its a guy's duty to pay for the dates. But there's some stuff I just wont feel obliged to pay for. But if he doesnt even cover the date's then I'll say he's cheap.
2007-03-10 06:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rock_With_Da_Mole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old he is.
You've got to know that most guys don't have much money and all but your boyfriend is being sort of cheap... maybe you shouldn't ask for anything and wait until he offers you something as a gift:)
2007-03-10 06:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-01 19:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like he's all that cheap...bills are a legitimate excuse, but i think he should pay for some things.
2007-03-10 06:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get a job and buy your own things... if he doesn't make a lot of money, it's hard to go from paycheck to paycheck when you have bills...
2007-03-10 06:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys don't earn a lot.
maybe your guy wants to know you like him for himself, not for what he can buy you.
anyway, you can get to know what bills he is paying....and carefully try to find out if he is saving money for something in the future.
2007-03-10 06:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may just think that all women want what they can get.I know that`s not right but some guys don`t.He may just be cheap.
2007-03-10 06:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Step 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Well actually, maybe he's having some money trouble right now...If not then he is really cheap.
2007-03-10 06:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋