me n my boyfrnd fight a lot cuz i dont trust him so much...i dont believe wt he says can u guys help me out???

Answer 1

trust needs to be earnt. if he's not lying to you and you don't have any reason to mistrust him, then it's you who has the problem - you need to keep reminding yourself of all the times that he hasn't let you down and all the times he's been honest. without trust there can be no love.

if you can't trust him because he is lying/cheating/being devious he needs to sort it out.

Answer 2

Hey hun i know exactally what your are going through i had the same problem with my boyfriend one time!!! What you need to do is talk to him get his side of the story of whatever you have been fighting about. And also where are you getting your information from are they reliable, the thing is a good relationship has to have an extraordinary level of trust and right now it sounds to me this relationship does not have that!!!!! So what you need to do is follow your heart and gut instinct, they are not usually wrong!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

whyever would you stay with someone you dont trust? Boot his @ss to the curb. It says alot about what you think of yourself to put up with that. If you dont trust him now, you likely never will, and would be setting yourself up for problems. Do it before you waste any more time and effort on a dead end relationship. Set your standards higher and look into ways to boost your self esteem

Answer 4

Did he do anything to lose your trust? trust is the foundation of a relationship. If you don't trust him you're just postponing the inevitable "breakup". You probably don't want to be with someone you don't trust. It's a waste of time to stay with him if you're not going to trust him. You need to make your mind. What does he do to make you not trust him? Are you just overreacting? Personnaly, is their no trust and your not trying to build one, you should each go your own direction. Life is too short to spend it fighting with your partner.

Answer 5

Then why are you together?Does he have a reason for you not to trust him? Because love is all about trust and since you can't trust him then whats the point of being with him?

Answer 6

Well they say that there is no relationship if there is no trust. And besides do you have proof that he is doing stuff behind your back? If not I think you should lay off of him because he may not like the fact that his gf doesn't trust a thing that he says...

Answer 7

Well why don't you trust him?

I don't think it's only a trust issue that would spark a lot of fights either. There's something deeper.

Answer 8

i was experiencing this same thing.everytime he gets a phone call or he's out i keep wondering who's he talking to or who's he with.......we would always fight and then one day we got together and we sat down and talk.i told him how i felt about him and how i don't trust him.he told me that he loves me and he will never hurt me and i believe him because if he is secretly in a relationship with someone else........that would be his price to pay.

Answer 9

well first of all if you cant trust him get out of the relationship. does he give you a reason not to trust him. if so move on more fish in the sea

Answer 10

i wish i knew, im going throught the same sort of thing. its cuz the last guy i dated sucked and always lied to me about girls hed go to this one girls house and TOTALLY lied to me about it cuz he knew i hated her and him hanging out. They were the dumbest lies and now im like taking it out on my new boyfriend and this girl thats been hitting on him recently and i dont know whether to beleive him that hes not leading her on or not. there's no way in really knowing the truth youve just gotta trust your gut or get nosey... which is not a good thing but sometimes you feel like you NEED proof.