Okay. So there's this guy. He is my best friend, and I'm his. He tells me he loves me a lot, but as a friends thing. We're always doing something, usually, and hugging eachother. But, for some reason, he's always going out w/ other girls. He knows I like him. He is also the sweetest guy and is always helping me w/ stuff and would never want to hurt me. Sometimes, I'm absolutely sure he likes me by the way he's looking at me and talking about me and he flirts w/ me 24/7. And everyone says we'd look cute together. But, everytime someone asks him if he likes me, he denies it. But the way he is w/ me... sometimes I'm not so sure. But he's not shy w/ girls! It's always someone else, and it hurts. I like him so much. I have liked him forever, like 6 months. This is a major source of hurt for me. So, I'd love some help/advice, cause I really need it. I know we could be perfect together, and I'm not exactly ugly =]. in all seriousness, this is a problem that's not going away. HELP!!!
2007-03-10 06:06:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He really is a good friend and you can't see it. Have you noticed him running through girls like they are from a list that never ends? Are you still around? Keeping you as his friend is the most noble thing he could do. Perhaps he knows that dating would end the way he treats you. Look at this from another prospective. The girls will come and go friendships last forever. You may even find that down the road he sees you differently. This is something that only time will tell. In the meantime be happy for the friendship. Having a guy for a best friend is like someone giving you a playbook on how they tick.
2007-03-10 06:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him yourself. U r not going to help yourself unless u do. Look, I know that u will say, " I really dont want to," Or, " No. I dont think I should." Or something like that. Look, u have 100% failure unless u dont try. I hope this helps. Please do this, because I know it will get u a answer anyway, and if he is truly your friend he would understand why u were asking u're friends to do it for u. Just walk up, and tell him how u feel. It is the best thing u can do. GL!!!
2007-03-10 06:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just waiting on you to make the first move. And since you 2 are always doing something together. Go ahead. Plan somthing for the weekend. And when the moment is just right tell him how you feel. And then see what happens afterwards.
2007-03-10 06:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley Sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys start out as best friends with you when they actaually wana be with you. or .. like some other guys (like my best friend for example) he might not be interested in you in the crush way, or love way, but itll be obvious cause they wont tell you everything and theyd rather hang out with their guy frineds..but i think ur friend really Does have a thing for you.. that is if u truley believe that there are these moments like wen both of u are just quiet and its not a weird silent moment,,
2007-03-10 06:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nutz43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.. Just remember.. If things go bad, you will lose your best friend in the process.. Things can never "go back" once that line has been crossed.
2007-03-10 06:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whts important to u your best friends or a realationship that could end .... its up to u but when i did this is sooo regretted it becaz a friendship that we used to have wasnt as great when we broke up . theres a fair warning but he sound sweet . best of luck
2007-03-10 06:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you would possibly want to refer on your brother first you do not opt for to easily bypass to her with out your brother understanding he might want to get to thanks to frightened to refer to her after that. So i might want to point you merely refer to him about what you advised us and ask him if he needs help consisting of his project, he will likely say he does and then you'll take it from there.
2016-10-17 11:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have problems sometimes. dey go out wit all da girls dey treat as frends, n stay away from da ones dey love. dont wory. he'll get ovr it. he'll realize his mistake. good luk.
2007-03-10 06:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him your self if he likes u he will tell u the truth and tell him that u liked him for a long time and listen to your heart it will tell u
2007-03-10 06:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, he is waiting for you to make the 1st move. Do it! Good luck! =D
2007-03-10 10:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ SCHOOL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋