His name is cody and he likes a girl named emily ..who goes through about 18 boyfriends a month..she makesout with them then dumps them...and i like him alot and he flirts with me alot...so what do i do to turn him into my direction..?
2007-03-10 05:59:21 · 12 answers · asked by Tory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not sure
2007-03-10 06:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tory, my advice to you will depend entirely unpon your age. I think you are a teenager and it sounds like a young one (l5?) anyway, boys go through a period where their brains just havent caught up to their bodies in development. It sounds like Cody just wants the sex part of the friendship. He will eventually outgrow that attitude and girls like Emily wont be the ones he wants to take home to meet mom and dad. But a girl like yourself would be described as a "keeper". Just be his friend for now and one of these days he will look at you and he will see a loyal and true friend and the kind of girl he would be proud to have as a girlfriend. Boys do not want to have a relationship with a girl who has slept with all their friends. They just want to "do her". But don't be surprised if by the time Cody figures all this out you dont have the same feelings for him. this often happens too.
2007-03-10 14:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to have to say that if this guy likes the school sl*t, it's because he's looking for some action. not a relationship.
if you want him to pay attention to you, just push him against a locker or a wall when there is no one around, stick your tongue in his mouth and then walk away and pretend nothing happened. he'll go crazy.
but if you're looking for a relationship, he doesn't sound like the right type of guy. you could just ask him though. say "hypothetically speaking, would you be interested in going out with me this friday?" and then grin because the hypothetically speaking is silly. (but it works!)
2007-03-10 14:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself, always smile, be polite and make every excuse you can to talk to him and be very interested in the things he is and also be a good listener. Once you find out his interests you may be interested in the same things and there you go you just started a conversation. Take care Heather
2007-03-10 14:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Cody that you like him and the girl he is attracted to is not the one for him
2007-03-10 14:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just shed light on the situation, talk to him dont gossip but just casually say how many boyfriends she goes through and how many hearts she breaks, then maybe start talking to him in a friend way and soon he will probably fall for you :)
2007-03-10 14:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean what do you do to turn him out of his direction. A person is who he surround himself with and his profile do not look good according to his association.
2007-03-10 14:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if he wants to have a coffee with you - go some place where Emily does not hang out
2007-03-10 14:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Molly R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come up with a cure for mono. you don't want that! seriously, you couldn't fall for for a jerk that wants and flirts with every girl. get a hold of yourself! somebody needs to slap some sense into you, girl. let him flirt....but, go for someone that isn't going to give you mono or worst. please.....
2007-03-10 14:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, harsh as it may seem, wait till hes got hurt then be there for him, it leads to a strong relationship
x
2007-03-10 14:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
impress him. hit his weak points. hang out wit him. give him a little physical stuff...ya kno i mean. keep tryin. wish u luk.
2007-03-10 14:03:28 · answer #11 · answered by bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋