My exgirlfriend and I had a reencounter after 4 years of zero coms, We have been dating for almost 2 months and everything is going so cool that she is doubting about her current and formal boyfriend who has been with her for 5 + years, We have told each other that we don't want to be separated again, on the other hand, she still refuses to leave him; We spend most of the week together but every weekend She has to be with him, I feel terribly bad Each time I want to give her a present or call her home, because she wont allow me to do something that breaks her reputation or her relation, though she has told me she realy wants to be with me but I am getting hurt and desperate for that, and as man, my proud is going lower, because I don't want to be her second one, and Unless she tells me that she is sure about leaving him even if I have to wait as long as it takes, My heart will still be broken and I don't feel like looking for other girl right now; my buddies think she is my girl...
2007-03-10 05:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by Ramon Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man wake up and get it together. You can't turn a whore into a wife. If she has a man and is with you what makes you think that she is ever going to leave him for you? She already has what she wants out of you and you keep on giving it to her. I say if you are comfortable with being #2 then keep on having sex with her like nothing is going on but you have to realize that what you are doing is condoning her behavior.
What are you thinking about man? If she cheats on her man with you what makes you think that she won't cheat on you with someone else? It's just common sense that she is not relationship material. But if you are cool with just having sex with her then you must realize that she is not a real woman and you can't treat a whore like a queen because they are not used to being treated that way and don't respond well to such attention.
2007-03-10 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seriously needs to make up her mind.. Either u or him. She doenst need to put u in the middle. and how is it u are letting yourself be this way, knowing she is living with someone else. How do u know she is telling the truth? about any of it.. This may hurt her, but maybe u should go to him.. the other man.. confront him and tell him whats been going on. U have alot to think about. I understand how u feel on this. I had a situation like this myself. Make her be honest with herself and u.. Dont let this keep going on and keep hurting u more and more. Its just stressing u..
She needs to make her decision now not later
good luck to u
god bless
2007-03-10 05:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're being had. Sooner or later she's going to have to make a choice, and right now, it doesn't seem that the choice will be you. Yes, your heart will be broken, but it's better now, then later, when you're head-over-heels in love. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-10 05:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't give you want you want, because she is basically ashamed to some level. She wants to be accepted in society and fears her relationship with you will bring unwanted sceptisism. Unless she comes to terms about her sexuality, she will always keep you in the dark. You deserve more.
2007-03-10 05:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i believe you would be better off without her, if she doesn't love you enough to leave her BF then she doesn't wanna be with you 100% right now she is using you. she doesn't really love you, and i think you had a feeling that she might not love you cause if you didn't you wouldn't be asking the question. i am sure that you can find someone better.
2007-03-10 05:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your an idiot for letting her drag your through sh!t like that. she is just using you. if she really cared about you what so ever she would not be with someone else.
so stop being an idiot and open your damn eyes
2007-03-10 05:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's cheating. drop her. she'll do it over and over.
2007-03-10 05:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋