I am almost 4 years into this relationship and very happy with my boyfriend.But, though we are quiet possessive about each other, but my over-possessiveness creates disturbances at times.I trust him very much but I always feel that someone is snatching him away from me.He is like my baby to me and I can't afford to lose him at any cost.How can I control my possessiveness and start trusting others. It takes the nerve out of me even if I hear a girl's name from his mouth.Am I going crazy?Within a few months we are going to join in two corporate companies in two different states.How do I handle this?Please help.
2007-03-10 05:41:31 · 10 answers · asked by jrom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not crazy.....I have gone through the same exact thing.....I just think you shouldn't think as negative.....and obviously if he loves you he wouldn't do anything to hurt you.....you have been together for 4 years and that means a lot....just don't push him away and trust him!!!
2007-03-10 05:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~Sexy Rose~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a time of seperation would be good for the two of you. Does he know how you feel, because you might be suffocating him just a little and that usually drives people apart. Trust him and his faithfulness to you, however, if he has given you a reason to be this uptight, let him go.
2007-03-10 05:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is extremely destructive to a relationship. Trust is essential.
In the beginning it may signal that you care, but as time goes on it will create so much stress he will want out.
2007-03-10 05:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Goodache 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
possesiveness will only cause a major rift between the 2 of you. dont think the worst when he says a females name unless there has been a reason for you to distrust him
2007-03-10 05:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by amber p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to let you know that some peolpe just feel this way like me. i cant control it either. also my boyfriend notices when im likethis and he yells at me. i really dont know what to tell youto help because some people are like that but i dont think it is wrong of you to feel this way.
2007-03-10 05:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by caribouu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wt ur feelin is rly strong love and also ur not confident....u think som1 might b snatchin him from cuz u dun feel like u give him wt he needs...if u make him happy then y should he leave u? ur jst worried and feelin unconfident...if u feel like ur givin him everythin u could give..then if he does leave..its not ur fault..but if u r givin him wt he wants then he wouldn leave tht easy
2007-03-10 05:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by triple_t5466 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's going to get worse when you move. let him go find someone who trusts him. unless he did something to make you not trust him, then you are out of control.
2007-03-10 05:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years, you're very possessive, and you're moving to separate states?
I'm sorry, but this is not likely to go well.
2007-03-10 09:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, wat your doin is perfectly normal, just try to explain to him that you want to change, and he prob will try to be understandin, and not spend as much time with other girls
hope things get better
x
2007-03-10 05:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try yoga...it really is relaxing.
2007-03-10 05:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋