ok, well he is alway's telling me that i need to wear tighter more revealing clothes. he get's mad at me when i wear sweatshirts and stuff but i am not very comfortable with my body even though he says it is fine. He always gets mad at me and argues with me when i say that i am fat. well yesterday he convinced me to where a mini skirt and a tighter top and so i did and he told me that i looked more than amazing and that i made his day. Why is he telling me this when i know that i have a little more blubber than i should? Do you think that he could be laughing at me inside? i hope not cause he's my best friend or could he actually mean it.
2007-03-10 05:22:15 · 19 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem with my husband hes not happy unless i ware something revealing when we go out. I about 15 pounds over wight and I would like to ware something comfortable. Well he tells me I look great only I need to lose some wight. I think if you where fat he would tell you.
2007-03-10 05:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly your best friend, he's not doing it to laugh at you. He's trying to get you to be less negative about yourself. Believe me, I think a majority of women feel like they could stand to shed a few pounds, but it's not always how we feel about ourselves that everyone else sees. Take the compliments and accept them. Try to be more confident in the way you look you'll feel better about yourself and maybe put on the skirt and tighter top on your own. If you were comfortable to leave the house in it, you obviously don't look bad in it.
2007-03-10 13:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he actually means it. Our friends and family are much more objective about our bodies than we are. You are probably a knockout (even if you do have a few extra pounds, which I doubt you have) and he wants you to see it. You don't have to wear tight clothes if you're uncomfortable in them, but if you see something cute, then you should wear it and not worry about being ashamed of your body. Your friend is right.
2007-03-10 13:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have issues with your body and he probably knows that and is trying to get you to realize that you are beautiful even if your not a size zero.. If that's what he's trying to do then he is going about it in the wrong way but his heart is in the right place. This is your body and you have to become comfortable with it on your own no one else can help you with that.
2007-03-10 13:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your best freind he shouldnt be telling you to wear tight clothes that you dont fell confortable in he sounds more like a boyfreind so dump him and find a gut that likes oyu for who you are and has some modern decensy not to tell you to wear tight clothes and a littlie advice not tying to be rude but have some dignity and not wear too revealing clothes its like your giving all those guys out there a FREE look to check you out and think weird things
2007-03-10 13:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's just a friend then he prob wants to be more..wear what YOU feel comfortable in. He is trying to control you and your choices, regardless. You are your own person and nobody should make your decisions for you or make your choices for you or should tell you what to wear and how to act like a "ho" if you dont want to. Be yourself and if he still tries to tell you what to wear tell him to wear something he doesnt want to wear and say something like" I'm comfortable being me thank you. If you want a tight wearing clothes "ho" then it will not be me, please go find one...if you want to be my friend, then be my friend and not my wardrobe assistant thank you..." lol
2007-03-10 13:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little fat is no big deal. He shouldn't force you, but sounds like he thinks you look great. Lots of guys like a little roundness. Me included.
2007-03-10 13:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, it's your responsibility to look sexy and delicious for men. Stop being so self conscious and show him your body and dress revealing and give him eye candy. It's only fair.
2007-03-10 13:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if he was your best friend he would accept you in any way that you felt comfortable.....but why would he lie.....maybe other people think that you do have a really nice body.....but you just can't see that!!!
2007-03-10 13:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~Sexy Rose~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he finds you very beautiful and attractive and he wants to show you off. Try to build your self esteem, being down on yourself is not healthy.
2007-03-10 13:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋