so friends here is my story
i am really disappointed with my luck i am 17 yrs old nd till now i am not able 2 get gf...not even a single one...well i am a gud lookin guy... havin a gud sense of humour...nd etc etc but i dont know y i doesnt have gf.......my friends says that i am little bit chossy.....may be they r right.....when i starts liking some1 then the girl says that 'i already have one'.many girls praposes me also but i don't like them.......is it natural or is it mean that i am havin a bad luck
2007-03-10 05:14:44 · 24 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on guys i want more answers,i really want 2 know whats ur opinion
2007-03-10 05:35:34 · update #1
i am 15 turning 16 soon i dont have a bf sumtyms its jus better this way cuz theres more to life then boys and girllsi mean my advice 2 u is to be urself dont care wat others say and be urself and if a gurl likees u and u dont like her then dont go for it cuz that ll be horrible u sound like my type of guy and many girls like taht tooo so keep ur nose up and jus wait 4 the right one to come to u sometyms when u want something really bad u should jjus wait 4 it and then itlll come to u
2007-03-10 05:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by idkjustanothergurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad luck...you just have to wait for the right one come around. If you have too much in common u might not get along with a girl. If you like someone, find out what some of her favorite things are and do something nice for her. Become friends with her (good friends) then when the time comes, (where you and her can talk about anything without getting uncomfortable) then maybe ask her to go somewhere with you like a movie or dinner. Ask her to be your girl friend then. Don't wait too long though, cuz' she may become un-interested in you. Also, don't try to act like someone ur not. Girls don't like posers!!!! Show her that ur sensitive, funny, and an all around nice guy. Try these things...hopefully they will help u...good luck
2007-03-10 20:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Shepard Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy - believe if life's greatest worry for you is not having a gf - then consider yourself lucky. I understand that for a teenager, it is a big deal but it is a big deal only if you make it. I wonder what is it that is really your issue - seems you are more interested in the process of getting a gf rather then having a gf. A gf is not a trophy or a status item and if you are going about this with an attuitude like that - that's not right. You not getting married in an arranged marriage situation, you are not chosing to an item of clothng or a car that you are devoting so much rules and standards.
I detect a tone of lack of humility in you. Great that you are good looking and girls propose to you too - ok to feel good about it but you are making your self out to be a snob. Your looks are your parents and God's gift to you, you have no hand in it to use it as a standard. Your personality is your own and if you really are a decent humble happy go lucky guy and dont view this as a task but one of joys of life and view a gf as a special friend rather then someone you think you need to have because you think guys your age should have.
relax - just enjoy having friends and listen to your heart - not your head (both heads) in the matter of romance - because with Gfs there should be romance, not status..
good luck..!
2007-03-18 00:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by shyguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.buddy u r not that old dat u need to worry abt havin a gf.its time 2 put urself in2 sum important things in ur life bas, jst that. dont rush into this helllllllllllll.................... better wait 4 the right person dont go out wid a girl just 4 the of having a relationship.
2007-03-10 13:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by suhani k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear even im 17 n i can understand how u feel about it. my situation was also somthing like yours....until i met this guy im going out with now. i think its good to be choosy at some part as it will lead u to a girl whose realy there for u. dont go for a girl u dont like just for the sake of havin one. u got to keep your attitude dear!!! have patience..... maybe ur too good and thats y its difficult 4 u to find the girl u deserve.
it would be better to have a girl who realy cares 4 u n who realy know you[ n whose sexy n makes a good pair with u too.......yaa thats imp too] so dont fall 4 any stupid girl around....
u'll soon have a gf who will be much better than the gfs of ur frnds.....blieve me...... all the best honey///////
2007-03-10 13:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by avril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey kid, dont be put down. I didnt find "the one" until i was 20. And i only had 1 boyfriend before that.
I was very picky, and realised being that way was a mistake cos there were so many great guys out there. Now i am happy with my bf....we are engadged.
2007-03-10 13:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by jackiebrawdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are u so desperate ur only 17, u should be thinking about riding around in your bike instead of a girl !!!
But if you are really desperate to be in the company of a girl then kidnap one, and lock her up in your basement....
joking !!!! get back to studying
2007-03-16 19:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your friends, they are only trying to help you out. Look into personalitys and you will do great. Lets say you like to ride dirtbikes, find a girl that likes to do that too. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-03-10 13:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your bad luck at all for sure.
As you are having couple of girls proposing to you. Its only that you are bit choosy. What there....... After all its your nature to be choosy, nobody to change you. Be as you are. Have patience if you are choosy or else settle for a compromisal. Hehe kidding.
Good luck
2007-03-10 13:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by ujwaldignified 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first relax.... it is not like a bad thing tat if u did not have a gf punch it to ur heart ...and then see certain things in life should come to us we should not be at that back ...so now it is the time u will be in ur college i guess do well ..and eagerly wait that princess to come into ur life now u will have lot of time money for urself save it for her ...perform well be an active participant in culturals if u have any and expel in academic's ...spent ur time investing in knowledge ..future plans and aprincess like gf will be in ur life ..sorry to bore u with so much of advice anyhow thanks for reading ...alll the best
2007-03-17 05:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋