stalker creep?

Question

I am in high school and there is this total creep that likes me and i have to go to his house after school to go to my sport practice. He tells me to lay on his bed and feel comfortable when im over and he is obsessed with me hanging out with him. He is a year older than me but is way more developed than me and i am seriously afraid of being raped by him. He has a past with sex and im totally freaked out i might quit my sports team to stay away from him. I dont want to be mean to him but what do i do? i have never been this scared

Answer 1

Why does everyone keep telling you to quit your sport? Tell an adult what is going on! This is unacceptable and he needs to be put in his place. Stay away from him as much as possible, definitely don't be alone with him in his room.

Answer 2

I have a few questions to better understand your situation:

1. Why do you have to go to his house for your sport? Is he the coach's son?
2. Why would you go in his room and lay on his bed? Tell him no.

If I were you, I would wait outside where people can see you and wait for your sport to begin. If he creeps you out, tell an adult who can help you. Stay away from him as much as possible and if you have to be with him, try to be with him in a public place. Otherwise he could trap you (if you are alone with him) and make you do things you don't want to. Most importantly (and I know this is easier said then done), tell him he creeps you out. Maybe he'll get the hint. Good luck!

Answer 3

Why do you have to go in his house for sports practice? Don't be quiet about it where he is concerned. When he makes you feel uncomfortable, tell him. Maybe you should consider a different sport. More info would have been a bit helpful, but I understand. Don't let him scare you, there is no acceptable situation in any sports program where you would be alone with him in his room. Good luck, and head up!

Answer 4

Get someone to beat him up....Just Kiddin'. Really if your that scared find any possible way to avoid him, even if quiting sports is what it takes. Your well being and mental state is more important,(unless your really good at sports, than just find alternative ways of getting there. If nothing works, get someone to watch over you till this guy finally leaves you alone. If all else fails get a restraining order on him. But if I was you be careful cause you never know.

Answer 5

For one, quit laying down on his bed. Don't do anything at his house except practice for sport. He might think that you are starting to like him, do not give him reason to feel that way.

Answer 6

Why the heck do you have to go to his house for sport practice? Don't go in his house at all, should only be with the whole team whereever your at. And yes, sounds like you might be at risk, if you keep up doing what your doing.

Answer 7

I would try to avoid him and not quit the sports and if he keeps doing that thentell someone like an older brother if u have oneand let them take care of it. I wouldn`t go over to there house anymore.

Answer 8

Tell SOMEONE, other than yahoo! You don't have to quit your team over some creep. You need to tell an adult, so you can have an adult with you, or creepo needs to leave the house while your there.

Answer 9

Start doing disgusting things like picking your nose in front of him and farting. Ask him where you can get checked for an std. Just do anything to make him not like you. Carry pepper spray just in case.

Answer 10

I'm curious, what sport are you involved in that requires you to be with boys? Stop going to his house.