My friend is seeing a man that clearly only wants to use her for sex and she is in denial because he is the only one to pay attention to her. He sent her an email stating basically that he wanted to end it and she knew this, but last night she saw him at a show we both went to and immediately was right back into thinking she had this man's attention and went right for it and when I said to her in the ladies room, "I thought he broke up with you. Are you sure you want to do this? (go out with him after the show), she got very angry and said I had been making inappropriate comments to her and had hurt her feelings. I apologized for hurting her feelings, stating that I was trying to keep her from getting hurt again. We left it at that and it feels awkward now.
2007-03-10 05:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were just trying to help your friend out. They don't always see it at the time. Give her a little time to cool off. I'm sure things will get better soon with her. She will realize you only said what you said because you care about her. Sometimes when they care about a guy, although it's hard to do, we need to keep our mouths shut. Even when we know it may not be the best move on their part. You apologized that's all you can do. Just give her a little space and it will work out. And if he turns out to be an idiot , she'll need your support.
2007-03-10 05:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, you should never come between your friend and her intimate relationships.
She has to come to terms with what this guy is about in her own space and time.
You unfortunately have to standby as friends do and support her through it.
If it becomes too difficult for you, or you cannot be around them as a couple, make time to spend with your friend 1 on 1 and leave her to handle her intimate affairs on her own.
If she tries to discuss it let her know you are no longer interested as last time you tried to help things did not turn out so well.
Let her know you are her friend and you love her.
This means that you love her and does not mean you have to like everything she does.
2007-03-10 05:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by makeda m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs a reality check..she is mistaking sex for affection....a guy will use whoever offers and will move on the next day....she needs to abstain before no decent guy will have her.
A guy will have more respect for a girl he cannot manipulate.
He wants to know he will get a good girl...one he can brag on as he may want to marry her...and he doesn't want every guy in town to have had her first.
If a guy gets sex he has no need of marriage.
If your friend wants to ever get married she has to be nice but chaste.
And she will not get an std or worse.
Stay clean in mind and body and God will reward you with a good mate.
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2016-09-30 11:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah shes in denial....just look after her...so she dont kill herself over this man or something....cause you did all you can...you just have to let her get hurt and understand that that man dont want her.....then she'll know what you said was right..
2007-03-10 05:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ginny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋