i only seem to be attracted to a certain race (not mine) and this is starting to bother me coz i dont find the guys of my race attractive
2007-03-10 04:55:36 · 5 answers · asked by Nokuthula 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes its not falling in love but its probably the attraction. u cant stop who you are attracted with but you can stop who you fall in love with. But,why does it bother you that you cant find your race attractive?there are many guys out of your race that are good guys and cute right?actually i have the same problem.well slightly different.i only find middle eastern and mixed guys attractive.but you know whats a good thing about your problem.if you date out of your race.u could learn more about different ethnicities and if you do have a kid, he/she will be mixed. but let me ask u a question.honestly.have you ever seen an ugly mixed kid?cause i havent --
2007-03-10 05:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by xShiereen Karjadix 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey lady welcome to the club. i noticed the same thing and asked whats wrong. here is the explanation ... BBC have a film 'laws of attraction' or something ... we are attracted to people that are different from us when we want passionate relation and we look for people with similar face features when we are considering marriage and family because we have been raised surrounded with familiar faces of our parents and we naturally trust our race most. But for the sex part we prefer someone complementary rather than similar to us .. it has to do something with genetics and continuing the homo sapience and other stuff that i cannot recall with scientific terms. but the bottom line is that this attraction is something completely normal.
..ah. and i completly agree with this "have you ever seen an ugly mixed kid?cause i havent "
2007-03-10 05:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel lonely within my community over here,so I'm looking for another race to chose my life partner,for my previous experience i dream if i could find my nice and suitable match as a native American specially if from Pensacola Florida.
2007-03-10 06:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by yonglover51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally normal not to want to date your own race....all of my friends and me are like tat too... so so think tat ur weird or nething cuz almost everyone is like tat.
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-10 05:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. don't know... good luck anyway
2007-03-10 04:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋