so me and this guy have been best friends on and off for 6mons. and when things started to get serious and he admitted he liked me,he started acting funny. he would get mad at me over the stupidest things but not talk to me about them and instead go off and ignore me for no reason. his explosions liked these happened over 8 times. and got ridiculous. when he got on my nerves and i asked for a simple break bcus i felt another one coming on, he ignored me for a whole month. when we got back together and things were at their best point. he pulled a short one for no reason really. all bcus i told him what a jerk he was being, and feelings might have changed. then i get a new boyfriend and his real feelings come out. and shortly after we realize we love eachother, he finds another stupid reason to "be done" all together. his best friend tells me its bcus hes not getting attention. i agree. but i do love him. but how can i end his games? i want him to figure out what he wants.
2007-03-10 04:55:12 · 16 answers · asked by almost an avril 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw. im still good friends with his buddies. and when i got on the phone with one, he was there too and started calling me crazy and obsessed becus hes the one who stares at my myspace and thinks for some reason its all about him when its not. becus my song was stupid boy. i flat out said yea, dedicated. but thats it. i just kept telling him to shut up and not flatter himself. and i guess when im on the spot i somehow put on a mask where i ignore my feelings and convince him i have moved on. i just dont get it. it was fun for the first 4mons, but why so bitchy now? cant we go back to having fun. i think hes the obsessed one.
2007-03-10 05:22:26 · update #1
yes its true . he feels that hes not worthy because you dont give him enough attention . He does not want to hang with you because he thinks that hes not worth your friendship or so in other words you dont value him .
2007-03-10 04:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...this is the exact situation I'm in..except it's been going on for twice as long. My ex-girlfriend(now anyway) is acting exactly like your friend is..we we're on and off all the time, and when we took one of those breaks I got a new girlfriend, and then she started telling me she loved me and stuff like that again. It gets really repetetive...I though I was the only person going through something like this.
2007-03-10 13:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth, he is not a man..he is a child...and you need to remove yourself from his actions and maybe not even be his friend after this is done, you really can't say you love him when he treats you like dirt, raise your standards in guys..this guy is not good for you..your much better than that
there are many NICE guys out there, just set your standards higher and do not settle for these types of guys
get rid of this one and do not look back,
good luck
smile
2007-03-10 21:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think you will come running back! It is a control thing. You need to dump this guy he will always do what he is doing and you give your power away and keep taking him back. You deserve better and dumping this control freak is in order!!!
2007-03-10 13:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the same things was going on with me it was because he was cheating. Leave him a lone, you will never figure him out. Save yourself from the drama he is causing and putting on hisself.
2007-03-10 13:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is not old enough to know what he wants from life, from a relationship, or from you. Find a man and leave the boys to the little girls!!!!
2007-03-10 12:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look it's ur life..but if u want to take advise so u better leave this guy(ur first bf).....look he is a kind of guy who is very dominative...he just wants to control you...every person hav self respect i am sure u also have so better leave this guy...n now ur current bf..think bout his feelings, care 4 him.. he definatly loves u ...don't think bout ur ex.. as he just wants power to control u... he may do not love u.. but just wanna control u...
2007-03-10 13:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by silk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your friend got alot of stuff 2 talk out in person to express each other's point of view and feeling
2007-03-10 13:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down and talk to him ask him why he does these things and let him know how you feel about it and if he continues then obviously youre not ment to be together
2007-03-10 13:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by jengurl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got lost in your ? and couldn't figure out what you were trying to say? Explosions? Hmmm...
2007-03-10 12:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋