why do nice girls finnish guys it seems that when the nice girls are attracted to you yall go the oppisite direction why dont guys want nice girls?
2007-03-10 04:40:48 · 14 answers · asked by jengurl89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is that whether you're a nice or bad girl, our society is saying it is okay for girls to chase guys. That's right - CHASE. But it is NOT. You have to make him go through the process of deciding you are worth the risk of rejection first. It's okay to initiate small things once in a while, but I get the feeling that actual chasing happened.
Chasing is bad. It makes the pursued person RUN. Even showing too much eagerness can be a turnoff.
Bad girls only show physical eagerness for which most guys will accept, but do not respect at all and that isn't what you want. Nice girls will be emotionally eager and THAT is what most guys are scared of.
So lean back and be chill like best friends with almost every guy you know. Accept all the grossness and dirty jokes. Don't ACT LIKE A GUY though. After a while, they'll see you as a very cool girl. They'll be more likely to seek actual relationships with you.
Hope I helped,
Franklin
2007-03-10 04:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls go for the wrong guys?
It's the same way with men and women. There have been plenty of times when the girl doesn't look in the direction of the god guy becaue they are caught up on the bad guys. I prefer the nice girl in my life I mean anything else is destined for drama.
2007-03-10 04:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen,
Maybe for the same reasons girls go for the WRONG guys!
It's a matter of "seeking out" others unconsciously and we tend to choose ones who are the opposite of us! Guess it's exciting to a point to date a "bad" guy, or girl!
2007-03-10 04:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys hunt easy targets, they don't wanna pass trouble. They eat the apples that hang low from the trees. But someday you will find a man brave enough to climb to the top of that tree where you are and he will be worthy of your love and devotion...
2007-03-10 04:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure they want yu to be nice after they get you tho. i think just like girls like bad boys its the excitement. nice girls/guys can be boring sometimes. everyone should have a balance. just be who you are but be very bad at home....
2007-03-10 04:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better question , why do girls go for the wrong guys? Because Idon't go for the wrong girls!
2007-03-10 04:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wondered that but maybe they'd go for the pretty, popular ones because everyone like pretty things(hope that was the answer).
2007-03-10 04:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always end up with the wrong woman maybe im just dumb i have a caring heart thats all i ever wanted was a nice woman i ended up with someone and married her and she never cared
2007-03-10 04:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract, that's why
good girls go for bad boys and good guys go for bad girls
2007-03-10 04:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confused
Nice guys like nice girls.
the problem is nice girls like bad boys.
LLAP!
2007-03-10 04:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋