Okay, is it wrong that I am a black girl, who only like white guys and or races? I am considered not be black?

Question

Opinions Please!


I am 16 by the way, and I don't date and i am saving myself for marriage. But, i am very attracted to white guys,matter of fact all the other races besides, black guys. People call me white or whatever all because i like white guys.

I never said I wouldn't date black guys, i just prefer other races, and also I know the culture of african americans...and i am proud of my culture. But, would prefer to date outside my race...and im not stereotyping. Geez just answer the question!

Answer 1

Hi "Mus",
I don't like Stereotyping and it still goes on, as times haven't changed! It's really too bad in this world, BUT, in my eyes the COLOR of one's skin doesn't matter!

I feel good when I see "interracial" couples together. it shows strength!

I have friends who are married with different races! It's nice! How boring it sounds to stay with one race when everybody is different and interesting in their own way and noone will know unless they give others a chance!

It all comes down to a choice! Some people like different races and tend to choose a certain one, NOT counting out others, but, there CAN be an attraction to a certain race. It's cool.

I have taught my kids not to be Prejudiced.

In my High School days, I found I was attracted to Latin guys. Latins have a CHARM about them!
I have Latin friends and Oriental friends as well. I work with a Black Woman and Latin Women.

Every race is UNIQUE and that is a QUALITY!

Someday I hope the Stereotyping that I see that goes on, will fade in time!

Best of luck to you!

Note: If you look past COLOR, you will STILL and ALWAYS see a PERSON and that is ALL that counts!
So, stay the way you are and continue to be happy!

Answer 2

I worry about that. First of all. Ignore people who say you are "White". They just enjoy running their mouths and finding some way to get the negative focus off of themselves. As far as your dating goes, I think it's great that you are attracted to and would date any race, but the fact that you exclude your own makes me think that deep down, you don't think that being Black is attractive, and that's a problem. Do you live in an area where you are the minority? That could contribute to it. Who are your friends? I really think that you should talk to your parents or another adult about this feeling because it sounds like a symptom of a bigger problem. I suggest you spend some time with and learning about Black culture and the beauty of it. Think about how you would feel if your son came home one day and said "Mom, I don't think that women like you are beautiful"? Just give it some thought. It may not change anything, but it's worth looking at. Good luck.

*You want us to give you a definitive answer of whether it's right or wrong, and it's not that simple. That is a question only you can answer. What is right or wrong for you?

Answer 3

There's nothing wrong with dating outside you race but I must burst your bubble you're being racist against your own race.

To say that you don't even date inside your own race is a racist comment. Like I said dating outside your race shows that you have more things in mind than just the color of a person's skin. But the way you say it just contradicts everything about that idea. You might need to take a look inside yourself to see what's the matter with the black men in hte world. You fall right in with what America says about black men and I'll tell you this there are some good black men in this world. Not all of us sell drugs, have 3-4 different baby mama's, hit women, go to jail, uneducated need I go on. Just something to think about when you say that you don't even date your own race.

Answer 4

Not wrong, but try to avoid stereotyping. Maybe some really nice black guy who likes white girls would like you but wouldn't give you the chance, and maybe that's what you're doing too.

Update: In your update you wrote, "I never said I wouldn't date black guys", but in the title of the question you wrote you "only like white guys and or races", which does imply you wouldn't date black guys. I'm not saying you wouldn't, but that is what your question means and the answers are based on that. Having seen the update the simple answer is, there's nothing wrong with you dating white guys.

Answer 5

Theres nothin wrong with liking other races. Im not goin to tell u ur wrong for not like black men. I guess i just dont understand why when they are the same as you. When i was 16 i loved white guys and i still do. I liked them more in high school up, but as i mature i start to get more attracted to all races more than whit when i was younger. And for the kids callin u names, they dont understand u or ur preference, so just brush that off and do what u feel. They dont understand u, but i kinda was where ur at when i was young. There are alot of hott *** white guys out there, so get one:)

Answer 6

maybe there is just no cute black guy that you know I'm 16 to but i dated about 18 different guys and the more guys i dated the more i like different races so maybe when you date your first white guy you may think that there boring and start liking black guys because there more fun

Answer 7

You can not help who or what type you are attracted to. I happen to only like guys with dark hair, I cant help that. I am open to talking and getting to know everyone but I feel a attraction only to a cert an type. Hair, skin, eye color it is all just "skin Deep"

Answer 8

People call you that because they are ignorant. You know what you like and you should not make apologies for that. Society makes no sense. People are teased or harassed for liking another race but no one ever rags on people who like blond hair over brown. Or tall guys instead of skinny. Or skinny girls instead of heavier girls. It makes no sense. Why is it socially acceptable for black man to like white woman but not for black woman to like white men. Never mind what people day! Do your thing. And good for you for waiting for marriage.

Answer 9

I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I dated a black girl many years ago. She was beautiful inside and outside.

Answer 10

No one can change for the way that u feel.. Its your decision on what kind of life style u want to live. U have to be happy for yourself...not for anyone else