Asking a guy out & he says he's stressed...?
What do you think it means when you ask a guy to meet up and he says he is really stressed? Also, do you think I should leave it for a while and ask him in a week or so when he is maybe not feeling so stressed? FYI he's not the type to mince words and be subtle, so if he meant 'No'' he would say so. We have been flirting for a while on and off, but he is stressed because of work and suffers from this often. All views are welcome...
2007-03-10 04:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by SK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he he genuinely thinking of you, and doesn't believe at the moment he could make a good go at a relationship, or anything, because of his stress, and doesn't want it to affect you.
I think it would be best to leave it for a while, but still make your intentions known to him so he doesn't think you have gone off him.
And how you have described him, it does sound as if he does some feelings back.
Like last year, I didn't want to get involved with someone becasue I was stressed and it wouldn't have been fair on them to rope them into the way I was feeling.
Good Luck, hope it works out!
2007-03-10 04:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie_Monster_UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a frequently stressed stay well clear of him. People with high stress levels often don't have time for others and their feelings because they are so focused on themselves...find yourself a nice jewish boy instead.
2007-03-10 04:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by british stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it with him tell him to give you a call when hes less stressed but dont hang about waiting
2007-03-10 04:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mayb u mite wnan just give him a lil space.hes busy nd stressed.just give it sum tiems.so just tyr nd b there as a friend.
2007-03-10 04:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him for a while then c what he'll say
i mean as far as i can c i thinks he's probley attracted to u
2007-03-10 04:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by danielle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're interested. Don't ask him out again. He should take the cue and if he is interested, he'll ask you out.
2007-03-10 04:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋