I feel no need for sex, (I'm not lesbian, but I don't feel the need for a boyfriend either). I have little to no interest in relationships at all and I turn down the guys that ask me out. Most of my friends are the opposite. Is something wrong?
2007-03-10 04:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by brubabe 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope your 16 go have fun you dont need the pressure of sex right now. live your life before worrying about that.
2007-03-10 04:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Joe D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, and I did for some time until I met a guy that I felt more connected with mentally then I did physically. We've had sex many a times, but on a regular basis I'm never in the mood nor do I find the motivation to have sex.
I dont find it weird at all, and besides your still growing, you have alot more things going on that deal with school and such, things may change as you get older and meet new people. Consider yourself lucky that you can find the strength to abstain from it, its only to your advantage
2007-03-10 12:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sarah nothing is wrong, you just haven't met that person that has made you want to date or have sex, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and please don't let anyone else try and tell you any different. I hope that you realise that if you date you do not have to have sex until you are ready, You are young and have plenty of time to experience boys and everything that goes with them, just relax and have fun and you will probably find that through time you will find someone.
2007-03-10 12:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not "weird" as you put it, but it IS unusual.
Don't worry about it. You have lot's of time in your life for your sex drive to kick in. Consider yourself lucky. Most teanagers sex drive reaches its peak during those years, just when socially they are supposed to refrain from sex.
It's kind of unfair.
Just stay focussed on the things that are really important in your life. You will be OK, because there is nothing weird about you. ;-)
2007-03-10 12:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't get into there sexual drive until there 20's and 30's They hit there peak and go wild near 40. Just have fun and don't feel like a pressure is being put on you in your young age.
2007-03-10 12:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have a friend that is 21 and has no sex drive and does not want to have a girlfrined either. He has never wanted to have sex not even when puberty hit.
2007-03-10 12:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by girl lost...Woman Found 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be greatful, sex complicates life in many ways. besides when your ready for a relationshp with someone, it will happen. At 16 you have a lifetime to develop relasonships, enjoy your youth.
2007-03-10 12:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by dragon20132005@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You are still very young and are perhaps just 'blooming' a bit later than your friends as far as hormones. There's no reason to have sex at your age anyway, trust me. Just wait, those desires will come soon enough.
2007-03-10 12:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are still young.. Dont rush into anything. U still have ur whole life ahead of u.. Take your time, feel free and do what u want right now.
2007-03-10 12:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Sex is something that comes after you get married. Our society has forgotteen that we are supposed to be married first. People can say what they want, but fact is fact.
2007-03-10 12:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋