so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a while ago because he, "needed a break". he told me not to worry since he was sure we'd be together again in the future. well one thing lead to another, and we kind of started disagreeing some, and to make things short...we almost never talk anymore.
so as time has passed, i sort of in a sense, have moved on a bit, in liking someone new. (an old flame that i guess never went out). and im sure my ex knows about this, and doesnt like it too much.
mmk well lately it seems like he's beein IMing me more than usual, and last night he IMed me being a complete ***. at first, im sure he was trying to make me mad, because he was talking about my friends and how he thinks some of them are "hot". then blah blah blah...and when i asked him to leave me alone, he started apologizing and being all sad. i asked him why, and he told me because i was shoeing him away and he was getting excited thinking about me. i was furious.
2007-03-10 04:09:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont know where any of this came from...what does he mean?
another thing, i think he might have been drunk.
2007-03-10 04:10:11 · update #1
he wanted a break,you have moved on,it sounds like he is insecure,and the whole break thing just a test to boost his ego as he most likely hoped that you would want him back.just ignore him and be abrupt if you have to,it sounds like his loss,tell him to be a man and f-----g grow up
2007-03-10 04:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by coopsradar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMM well sweet heart it's like this.. Men are ego driven pu$$y hungry fools.. Some boys want to be "players" when you moved on it made him feel insecure. He thought you would be at home crying over him and want him back.. now he feels insecure and is talking about your girl friends trying to make you feel as broken as he does. When that didn't work, like the little girl he is. He starts confessing how much he still feels for you trying to get you back... Don't fall for it... He will get you back it will boost his ego and he will later dump you again for the next flavor (chick) of the day.. MMm He is down and this is your chance to kick him where it hurts a man the most... That's right kick a man when he is down.. May I suggest you happen to mention how well hung your new BF is and how many orgasms you now have due to his huge member... You may also take this time to throw in you never came when having sex with him, and you had always faked it all... Last not least let him know that you fell asleep once or twice in the past while he was asking you to call his name!! lol!! He will love that one...
2007-03-10 12:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Gr8tFuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time asking these obvious questions? You already hit the nail on the head-he's an ***. He likes to have you right where he wants you-you need him and will roll yourself out like a floor mat for him. People usually go for the same patterns in relationships-so don't bother with the old flame either.
Start fresh, be confident, and don't let yourself get walked on. You'll meet a new, better type of guy. Then the next time you are asking relationship questions on here it will be to ask what type of wedding dress to wear. J/k-I don't about all that, but hopefully you will be happier.
2007-03-10 12:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever have to have people like your ex in your life. There are way too many good people who are mature and stable. He sounds like a creep and you were right to move on! Give yourself a pat on the back and keep hanging out with people who build you up not tear you down. Life is hard enough and he really needs to grow up. So when he gets in your head make yourself think of something else good, happy, joyful ... soon you will not think of him. You sound pretty healthy so I know your gonna be fine.
2007-03-10 12:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Law School 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to make u jealous, he broke up with u, not the other way around, now that u are seeing someone new, he is jealous, its all about ego, its a competition with him, his self worth has been bruised to even think u could like someone else. but don't be flattered or fall for it, he just wants to see if he can get u back, and when he does and the other guy is gone from your life, he will start his crap all over again, he doesn't really want u, but he does like to be in complete control of u, he also doesn't like to loose. he wants u to just be there whenever he wants u, but chances are he is also doing someone else too. so ignore him, don't fall for it, just a ploy to get u to get rid of the new man and be available whenever he chooses. he made his bed, made this choice, now let him deal with it.if the new man makes u happy stick with him, distance yourself from your ex, if u don't u could loose the one your with now. once u are free he won't even want u anymore, this is just how men do it, its all a competition with them.
2007-03-10 12:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for you to forget your ex and completely move on. He is jealous because he wants to keep you in reserve while he enjoys himself with other girls. He is angry at the thought that you might move on. My ex-wife tried doing that too. Don't let him play you. God bless.
2007-03-10 12:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angelus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Whatever it is. If you still want him, I think he might still want you too. If you don't, you need to tell him. Be honest. Talk to him in person, not over the internet. Good luck, I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-10 12:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yu ex wanted a break? He is having it now. Let this poor guy feeling & enjot yourself.
2007-03-10 12:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by silvinpower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was wasted. I wouldn't worry about him he sounds like a big dork!
2007-03-10 12:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drunk? ahh thats a bit scarey. uhm, just forget him and move on
2007-03-10 12:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋